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so earlier this year these girls were really mean to me. they practically ruined the 1st half of the school year. i know not to trust them not because they both arent nice and they've done mean things to other people. now one of my good friends is friends with them. i dont want her to get hurt but if i tell her to be careful around them she will tell them thinking they are friends and they well tell others (school counslor and parents because they love to get me in trouble ) how can i make sure my friend isnt going to behurt by these girls?
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There is really not much you can do about it. Girls will be girls especially in highschool. All you can really do is be there for her if they do hurt her. Don't tell her anything, maybe just hint that they aren't that nice. You really just need to kinda keep your nose out so you don't get dragged into the drama. Highschool is full of backstabbing girlfriends, drama, and tears, so just keep your chin up and be there for her when she gets hurt.
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really all you can do is let her find out for herself. Its not the advice you were looking for i know, but how will she ever know if she dont experience it. Just be there for her when the walls come crashing down. I know what it feels like to want to protect a friend from a bad thing, but sadly to say you cant control it.
-hayley
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The only thing you can do is be there for her. I'm sorry, but if she wants to be friends with them, you can't stop her. Just watch her and be there IF they do anything and be there to back her up if they get her in trouble. Not only will this strengthen you guy's friendship, but it will set a clear example to others to stay away from those girls. If you really feel you must drag her out of the hole she's falling into,invite her over for a sleepover, have fun and everything and then tell her what they did and warn her. Don't be too pushy about it, or she might get mad at you. Just tell her it's "something to think about" and that "she doesn't have to do this if she doesn't want to". Then, whatever she says, tell her not to tell anyone, because you don't want anyone mad at you. Goodluck! :]
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