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My name’s SAV. Okay so there are these two girls S and H. At school have our own little group of friends, there are 6 girls, we all get along except me, and S and H. S and H are best friends, and they don’t like me and it’s obvious. They talk about me right in front of me. We had some drama at the beginning of the year, so I was like okay I guess we can try to get along now. Well there was thing we all tried out for and they somehow made it and I didn’t so I was sad and started to cry b/c I wanted it badly. And Friday 3/14 is when we found out if we made it or not. Well that same day one of the friends in our group named A, called me to comfort me and stuff. I didn’t pick up immediately b/c I was sad, so I called back later like around 7(she called me at 4). S and H happen to be at her house when I called. And so I started to cry on the phone and A had to leave the room b/c I was crying when she was talking to me. Well when she left H and S in her room, and they started laughing and saying stuff like oh my god why is she crying and stuff. On Sunday S text me to ask me if I made it or not. (I could’nt tell if she wanted to rub it in my face or if she really did’nt know). Well Monday came along and I sat at lunch with my other friend b/c I knew they would brag about it, and I did’nt want to deal with it. My friend V sat with them and was talking to them, then this guy came over and was like where’s SAV? And S said I don’t know with a sort of attitude, then the guy goes “why do you sit with her if you don’t like her”? Then S and H immediately looked at each other like oohh crap and looked at my friend V to see if she heard. So obviously they still hate me, but I was’nt able to tell b/c it was like we actually got along. So I don’t really know why they hate me? Maybe it’s cause they’re bored and need something to do…I don’t know…But yea so they stilll talk about me and I can’t stand it. I really want to say something about it but not directly. I was thinking about saying something like, “ I hate it when people act like your friend and yet they talk about you” or “I know people hate me, but I still try to get along with them, and it’s annoying how they don’t even try.” I don’t know something like that.
But the thing is, if I say something I don’t know if it’ll start drama, and I really want to say something b/c it’s bothering me, they’ve been doing this for the whole entire year.
And if I’m going to say something what should I say??
And I don’t want to say it to them, I just kinda want to hint it to them really big.
**srry about the grammer i was in a hurry
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hey ok well actually I've had that going on in my life 2. I got these friends and they say stuff about my other friends and me behind my back. But when i finally find out about it,even if it causes drama,i say something about it because..girl if they r ruining your life you need to get rid of it and start living more happily. Just tell them about everything but you don't HAVE to be mean about it. but hopefully if you just tell them that your getting tired of them talking about u behind your back and tell them this "if they aren't gonna stop then we can settle this rite now and not be friends because people like you guys don't have real friends and only like you because your stuck up" so i don't know if this helped or not but i hoped it got your mind going on how to resolve this problem and sweetie...just believe in yourself make your life a happy one,and stick up for yourself
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if it were me i would say something sarcastic and rude to make them shut up. or flat out just tell them if your going to be jerks, do it behind my back. no matter what it will start drama but dont go along with it. if you make them think your vulnerable or gullable they will do it to you and disrespect you if you make them think your hard and wont take that crap, they will have a bit more respect for you. you just cant give in. and personally i think saying something to them even if it starts drama is way better than letting them keep doing that to you.
hope i helped!
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