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my cousin
my cousin is really popular. im a guy and she is a girl. we go to different schools and i feel like such a loser. she is very pretty and has a boyfriend. i just feel like she never wants to hang out with my becasue i am her loser cousin. what do i do to hang out with my family?!
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I think you should talk to her about it, she may not even realize the vibe you're getting from her. You see, a lot of popular people are really nice and don't consider other not-so-popular people to be losers. I'm sure she doesn't feel like you're a loser, she just doesn't understand how she makes you feel.
Try talking to her and letting her know how you're feeling and I'm sure things will work out and you'll spend more time together.
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Aw I'm sure she doesn't think that at all. Don't worry about it, your not a loser. Why can't you just call her? Say hey whats up wanna chill? I don't think she turned down her own family. Maybe you should talk to her, about how you feel like she doesn't wanna hang out with you, I'm sure thats not the case, though. You need to make the intitative (sorry thats spelled wrong) and call her.
Good luck, and your not a loser :)
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As a person who hangs out with her family a lot, I do feel your pain when things like this happen.
But when it does, you need to let go. Just remind your cousin that you like hanging out with her and while you're glad that things are going great with her, that you miss hanging out with your cousin.
You should also reach out to the various communities you're involved in for different friends outside of the family (i.e. church/temple/synagogue/school/local YMCA/etc) You'll be surprised at how popular you can become.
Or join a martial arts. It's a real confidence booster for guys and you make friends because you're all being tortured by your sensei. haha.
cheers and good luck,
stargirl
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