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is it wrong?


Question Posted Thursday February 28 2008, 12:33 am

i think i MIGHT like one of my teachers. there is only a 6-7 year difference.. i mean its weird but i don't know, is that totally wrong?

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jobrolover3725 answered Thursday February 28 2008, 11:16 pm:
no its okay. lots of people like their teachers. you just have to know that no relationship can come of it because your teacher can get in SERIOUS, and i mean SERIOUS trouble. so just keep your crush on the down low.

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LOL_x0x answered Thursday February 28 2008, 6:49 pm:
No, it's not neccessarily 'wrong'.
The only reason that anything would be weird, was if the teacher liked you, too. Then things would get really messy and complicated.

So, I'd keep the attraction on the down low to avoid any problems that might arise.


-Laura. (15-f)

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SiLenTxfAiRy answered Thursday February 28 2008, 1:21 pm:
no, its not wrong to like one of your teachers. just do not act upon it. during high school there were always the good looking teachers all of the girls took his class.. their nice to look at but TROUBLE! :]

admire from afar.. and get good grades, so you can take another class taught by him!

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REALIFEADVICE answered Thursday February 28 2008, 12:17 pm:
HI,

No it's not wrong and the feelings you're experiencing are normal and natural - lots of people find themselves liking a teacher. As for if its wise to act upon that feeling - in most cases its not and my advice would be don't - the feelings will pass with time.

CHAN
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thelaura answered Thursday February 28 2008, 9:30 am:
It's fine to like someone. Alot of people will go through it, whether it's with a teacher or just happens to be someone older.
What you cannot do, though, is allow it to lead on to anything more.
He is your teacher. He is responsible for you and shouldn't be having relationships with you, or any other student.
It's probably just a crush which will soon fade out. Focus on boys your own age, or if they're immature for you, ones that aren't teachers :P

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Elcee answered Thursday February 28 2008, 6:34 am:
It's okay to like a teacher, but totally wrong to think that it would lead to anything. The teacher is not allowed to date any student whilst they are under their care. If the teacher is giving you any indication of reciprocal feelings, they are breaking the law and will lose their job if anything should happen.

You should not do anything about your feelings because of the legality of the situation, but if your feelings continue once you are out of full time education, then you may be able to approach the teacher to find out where you stand.

The chances are your feelings are fleeting and once you have met someone you are able to date, you won't give this teacher a second thought.

All the best.

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coOokiie answered Thursday February 28 2008, 4:32 am:
It sort of is wrong cause he's a teacher and your a student so while your his student you wouldn't be able to be his girlfriend but knowing you can't help how you feel and since he's over 18 i'm not sure if you are but if your not it would be considered rape if he was to be your boyfriend and it's illigal.

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