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Well Hi, I was wondering if i should go out with my ex-boyfriend again? I broke up with him for a dumb reason but he still likes me and i feel bad.
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I don't think so because I almost did that, but then I realized that I really didn't like him. Don't just go out with him again because you "feel bad". Because, believe me, after you go out with him and want to break up again, you'll feel even worse.
Give it some extreme deep thought to whether you think it's the right thing to do
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If you still like him then Go for it :).
I went back out with my Ex, and it worked. Well, he went out with me again. We went out at first for three months - broke up, missed each other for about 7 months and now we've been together for eight months total. so Getting back together does work: theres a common stereotype that it doesnt work but its not always the case. It depends if you like him or not - if you do, dont let someone you miss walk out of your life if theyre important to you. But, if you dont like him, and just feel guilty, dont ask him back out, Cos, youll end up getting sick of him, or not liking him more:) and you wioll probably break up again :).
It depends how you feel about him:).
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Like Laura said, we don't know the reason, and we can't help specifically, but here's my generic advice.
I went through what you're going through. My girlfriend broke up with me for a stupid reason, but it was ME who felt bad about it. I felt SO pressured into asking her back out and I was told how much of a jerk I would be if I didn't date her again, so I fell into peer pressure and asked her back out three days after we had broken up.
It turns out that getting back with your ex never really works out. Getting back with her was just awkward, especially since I asked her out because of guilt.
If that's your reason, don't do it.
--Jack
(16/m)
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No, you shouldn't date him again because you "feel bad." Never let guilt make you be with someone you don't want to be with. If you do still like him & want to be with him, then go for it! If not, just let him know you'd like to just stay friends. Never lead him on though, that just causes more heartbreak. ♥
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if you truely like him, you should go out with him again. if you just feel guilty, dn't because you will regret it in the long run.
hope i helped
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First of all, we can't make your decision for you. This is nobody's choice but your own, and you need to make it yourself. Second, we don't know the reason, so we can't really even give you an opinion.
So, basically, you need to sit down and really think about it. Think of the pros and cons, and then make the choice.
Good luck =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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That's a loud and resounding no!
Sure, you feel like you want him back now. But give it a couple months, go out, have fun, flirt a little, live a little, and soon, you won't even give him a thought.
cheers,
stargirl
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