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my just went to hell


Question Posted Sunday January 13 2008, 12:41 am

my parents say just because we have a really good life i dont appreciate the value of hard work and they say i take them for granted just because i would rather hang out with best friend and god bro roger every day and my girl friend mariah whom i love very much they get mad because i would rather hang out with the girl i love more than anything in the world and my bro roger hes my best friend we have been together every day since i was five we live right next door to each other they just told me that since i take them for granted they're shipping me to a school in north carolina called ashville but rogers parents may send him to i told them i dont wanna go but they don wanna listen they already started looking for available flights so they can start looking at the different campuses their flight left 8 hours ago i dont wonna go because if i do ill lose the love of my life and i cant handle that what should i do

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triquetra answered Monday January 14 2008, 8:33 am:
Just because you hang out with your friends, doens't mean that you need to go to a different school, that's not right.
Go to your parents and say that you love Roger and you don't want to move away. Say that you don't take them for granted and you love them more than anybody else (this is true, isn't it?) but you need to go out and meet your friends every now and then. Spead equal amounts of time with your parents and your friends, not one more than the other.
Now to get your friends to understand, tell them the situation and that you want to spend some time with your family.
I can imagine that many people would take this light heartedly, but not you. You can really have some quality time with your family and have fun at the same time. Watch films with them, walk with them and have good family discussions. I have faith that you can do this.

Good luck with the future,
triquetra

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orphans answered Sunday January 13 2008, 11:00 am:
Your parents are probably just upset because you rather hang with your friends and girlfriend than your own family, your own flesh qand blood. I really tink you should talk to them and tell them how you feel about your friends and love life, that you don't want to lose them or [your parents] because your girlfriend and god brother are like your family. If they still don't understand then maybe you should take some time away from Roger and Mariah, not permenantly, just enough time so your parents reconsider their decision.
And if you do wind up going to Ashville and you are forced to leave your girlfriend she should still love you because love like that doesn't just die.
Hope it all works out in your favor!

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tabby14 answered Sunday January 13 2008, 10:52 am:
Just spend a little more time with them than u do...family will always be there and you never no how long friendships and relationships will last...talk to them...tell them about how you feel...and if your girlfriend really loved you she will stick by you. and your parents seem kind of dictating no affense.

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