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Guy Problems.
13/f
Well I like this guy && he likes me too.
But he hardly goes on msn, he used to but hes grounded. I'm really scared we're going to loose our relationship, cause hes also in a different class then me. He only talks to me at like Break/recess & Lunch. But I'm in his Math class, I cant sit near him since his friend always sit there, and then one day, I finally found a spot that is KINDA near him... Something like this.
F= his friends BF = my friends K= always hated this girl H= Him M=Me
F H K BF
f f BF M
Sorry if that was confuesing. Anyways. It was like that, and then I dont really see him talking to me in math. But when "K" was talking to him since he was kinda right beside her, he started to laugh. I can't really find any other time to talk to him. && the valentine dance is coming up. But our school rule isnt ask people before the dance. Its actually you ask the person AT the dance. I want to dance with him, but I'm afraid of the relationship ending. =\
Any advice would do! Thanks. (:
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This is a typical movie storyline. A girl that you hate is trying to steal a guy that you like. The key is to get to him before "K" does so that way you can dance and at the same time talk to him about stuff.
Cliche Time: If it wasnt meant to be then it wasnt meant to be.
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The best thing to do is find ways to hang out after school in real life. If you cant, find ways in school. Stay with him in lunch and recess. Try to ask him if he could sit next to you in Math class(unless you get assigned seats XP) Get him to sit by you instead of you trying to sit by him. Like, ask him to help you understand something in class(even if you already understand it). Its kind of like the saying "the frog does not go to the fly, the fly goes to the frog." Be patient and slowly ease him to sit by you. Eventually, itll become a habit of his, and he'll do it more often(unless the relationship breaks which I pray does not happen). And if your worried about "K" hang out with him more, dont be. Unless you know for a fact that something is going on between them, dont interfere. You could just possibly make thing worse. Just slowly push forward to him and it should all work out.
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Well, maybe you could ask BF to switch seats with you so you can talk to him and so K isn't getting all of the attention. And make more of an effort to talk to him in between classes, during classes, and outside of school. Call him, but for the msn part, amke sure your realtionship isn't based ALL on the computer, cyber realtionships can get messy.
Hope I helped and good luckk
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I think you should tell him how you feel he should understand but I don't think he would end your friendship so just give it a try I'm sure he would say yes.
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