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dreaming of cheating
so today is me and my boyfriends 1 year 6 months anniversary, and last night i had a dream that i cheated on him with his best friend! i was crying and upset in the dream, but why did i dream that? what does it mean?
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Dreams aren't always what you see. They can be interepted. Like your dream could have ment that you were scared of doing something with his friend. I have had dreams where I could fly if I jumped up and flapped my arms,while kicking my feet. I haven't figured out what it means, but I don't think I'll try jumping off a cliff to see if it means I can fly if I do that. Hang in there, and I'm sure you'll figure out if it ment anything, or if it was just a random dream.
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Dreams are thought pictures. When you go to bed your brain is still working and processing thoughts and fears. You're just encountering your fear or whatever has been bothering you in another way while you sleep.
Does it mean anything? it means you're scared of losing this person or doing something you regret to cause that. The sooner you get over this the better things will be. Bottom line your issue is insecurity and not what you saw playing out in the dream.
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It doesn't mean anything. Well, maybe it means you're attracted to his friend, and somewhere in your subconcious you've wondered what it would be like to be with him. But that DOESN'T mean that you don't love your boyfriend! The truth is, being in love doesn't stop you from noticing other guys. Even when you're happily married, you can still be attracted to other people. It doesnt mean there's something wrong with your relationship... it's just your primitive instincts at work. As long as you don't act on it and risk messing up a great relationship, then it's nothing to worry about.
The good thing about dreams is, they let us experience things without actually doing them. In this dream, you cheated... and felt rotten about it. The dream gave you a chance to see how you'd feel if you DID cheat. And now you know!
So don't worry about it. I think your dream shows that you really do care about your boyfriend and your relationship. =]
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while im sure that there are SOME meanings behind CERTAIN dreams, i do not believe that all of them have subtext. your dream could mean a number of things...maybe you're scared your bf is cheating on you, or maybe you're scared you can't handle the relationship, or...now seriously think about this...maybe you have feelings for your bf friend. if all of that isn't the meaning then you really don't have to worry. dreams are dreams...they are just your brain finding a way to amuse itself until you wake up. i mean, seriously, i had a dream a man was throwing cows at me..hehe...i dont think that has any kind of significance.(unless i secretly ave a fear of flying cows or something...ha)...and now that ive shown just how much of a geek i am, i'll finish with this. think about it...who cares about the dream? i mean, as long as you dont REALLY cheat on him then ABSOLUTLEY nothing is wrong! dont worry! seriously! hope i helped!
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well i think there are meanings behind dreams. Dreams are rarely random garbage in your head. they are either wants, or fears, or some other really deep meaning that you wouldnt even understand in your conciece mind. I dont know what exactly, im not an expert, but i hope you find out!
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Well, I, as much as a skeptic as I usually am, believe in meanings behind dreams. It does not mean that I think that you are going to cheat on your boyfriend in real life. I'm saying that it has a deeper meaning. Here's a full description: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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It was only a dream. Sometimes we dream about weird things that we wouldn't do in reality.
Heck, last night I had a dream that I left my newborn (who is not yet born) in a house somewhere all by himself. I know I wouldn't do that in reality, so I don't let the dream effect me. It was just brain garbage, basically.
It doesn't mean you want to cheat on him on some deep level. It just means dreams are strange, and sometimes they are just crazy.
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