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PLEASE HELP :[[[
ok here's the thing imm really sad right now :(
please dont get mad at me but could you actually give a real answer that you would do if you were in this position
ok since i was like 4 i was friends with this girl named britney. wen my family moved away from them we grew further apart
but wen i was like 12 and she was like 14 she started getting more friends then she stopped hanging out with me
but she still thinks everything is ok
i dont know why but its almost like i hate her
she just i guess wants to act mature and she always hangs out with my sister and doesnt even say anything to me
wenever we do talk she just asks about my sister and doesnt really care about me
please ive cried every night because of it and i really need advice!!!
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Don't take it the wrong way. Like it might not seem it but 12 and 14 is somewhat of an age difference. Both of you are experiencing different things and some of the things that you are experiencing she probably already has and dealt with it. You probably have just grown apart, just try to find friends that are around your age group but do not let it bother you that you are not close as you used to be.
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To all the Britneys and Massies in the world:
People have feelings. You can't just treat them badly because they don't fit into your world.
With that said, no person who is treating you badly deserves your friendship. I will say, people do change, yes, but sorry if this a little "7th Heavenish" make new friends but keep the old. The famous Girl Scout motto.
The problem with the world now adays is they only think about themselves. We have gotten to the point of what can you do for me? I don't care what I can do for you. By all means, I am not saying you are this way, but Britney seems to be.
Talk to her, see what she wants in a friendship from you, see if she can fit you into her "very social life" and ask what is her deal. Be honest, straight forward, and get it all out in the open. This way, you can either get on with your life, or be better friends after. Good Luck.
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well i don't know how old you are now but as you grow up you're gunna learn as much as it sucks to say, people change.. theres nothing you can really do about it. BUT since you guys have lasted as friends for this long, i would try confronting her about how you feel about everything because she should care about you if she was ever you're friend. and maybe even try talking to you're sister or something. if you're friend doesn't listen to you when you try to tell her maybe just try to find some new friends because you clearly don't deserve to be treated that way.. i'm really sorry though, i know how you feeel. if you need anything else let me know. i hope i helped atleast a little<3
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hey girlie. well trust me ive been through alot with friends and the best thing you could do is TALK TO HER! she wont know how your feeling if you dont say something to her. tell her that you miss how things were between you two and how you feel left out because all she wants to do now is hangout with your sister. ask her if she wants to do something, i dont think she realizes what your going through because she doesnt see it. if she still doesnt understand or all she wants to do is hangout with your sister; you dont need somebody like that in your life. hang out with the people that mean the most to YOU and make you happy :) instead of worrying about people that make you cry at night. i know it will be hard seeing her hanging out with your sister but in the end it will all work out. if you need anything else be sure to let me know; goodluck
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people change. im 18 and i have lived through it all. you might be close to a friend for a couple years, then you drift apart. it is part of life, but you can try talking to her about your feelings. you can let her know you have been upset about everything and you want to get the friendship back.
if you dont want to talk to her right away, you can try just askign her to hang out and maybe the friendship will get the spark back on its own. good luck with everything, and eventually let her know how your feeling because i know the worst feeling ever is crying and being so sad/angry without telling the person
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