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i'm 15, and yes im going to be having sex with my boyfriend in the next week. the problem is, i cant even imagine a penis going into my vagina because, well the hole is so small. no, i have the right hole. when i finger myself, i can barely get two fingers in! how is a penis supposed to fit? i need to know, so please help!
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i know this sounds bad.
let him stretch you out.
his fingers are bigger.
and most likely he knows what hes doing..i hope
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good luck..ouch!
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It WILL fit. If a vagina can accommodate a baby, a penis will be a doddle.
I won't bother saying not to have sex, despite that being right for many reasons.. because you're probably going to do it anyway.
Here's 3 tips.
1. Have him finger you, inserting more each time to "loosen you up".
2. Use LUBE.
3. Relax.
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You should wait! If you can't get your own fingers in, then you shouldn't have sex because it will hurt pretty bad. Just a warning. Get your boyfriend to finger you with one finger and move up to two or three in some time. It may hurt but it's the best thing to do to avoid pain. I did that for weeks and my first time didn't hurt. Also the hole may seem small but the vaginal walls stretch. His penis isn't extremely hard, as you probably know.. it's soft. So you really need to go out and get lubricated condoms. Those are probably the best if you are nervous. Otherwise it will hurt.. if you are nervous and your muscles tighened up. it shouldn't be too hard to get it in if you have lube and if you have made yourself less tight by fingering.. Once you get past the head then it's easy. Just make sure he takes it slow.
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dont worry, its the same for many girls, including me. i couldnt even get 2 fingers up there..but i lost my virginity to my bf two years ago, and yes it hurt but it felt good as we kept doing it. its meant to fit, just have him be gentle the first few times until you feel comfortable
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It just does because it is meant to.
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