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My boyfriend


Question Posted Friday December 14 2007, 7:18 pm

my boyfriend wants to have sex but i dont know if im ready what should i tell him

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Juelz0587 answered Monday December 17 2007, 12:02 am:
if your having doubts your not ready. Tell him you aren't ready and if he really loves you he will wait. If he pulls the "well if you loved me you'd do it" ... DUMP HIM! If he isn't going to respect your boundries...he isn't worth it. Tell him you love him and it isn't him...that its you. You aren't ready for sex, your waiting. Tell him you will let him know when you are ready and to be patient and understanding.

anything else, inbox me!

*JUELZ*

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bigflirtbabe answered Sunday December 16 2007, 10:11 am:
tell him how far you are willing to go. If you don't make it perfectly clear, he may encourage you to go a little farther while you're "fooling around" and then you'll get pressured into doing something you're not ready to do. Just make sure you let him know when you're not in the act of kissing, or touching or something, because then your body will make you think you want something you don't.
hope it helped
*jackie*

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Khadijah_boo_mama answered Saturday December 15 2007, 8:59 pm:
you should tell him that you not ready and you want to take it slow

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justtryingtohelp answered Saturday December 15 2007, 4:36 pm:
You should tell him that you don't know if your ready or not. so he is gonna have to take it slow. Gradually get to the sex part. If he can't except that then you need to consider if you really want to be with him.

~~HBA~~

Hope i helped

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whoaxbabe answered Saturday December 15 2007, 2:14 pm:
Tell him you're not ready. He'll understand if you don't want to.

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Em231 answered Saturday December 15 2007, 10:58 am:
Hey, my name is Em231 and i think I can help you
all you have to say is" Hoeny, I'm sorry but I'am just not ready yet". Thats ok I f your not ready yet
thats a real commitment you know you should only do
that if you guys are realy are in love with each other. Ok! i hoped i helped
Em231:)

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thelaura answered Saturday December 15 2007, 9:47 am:
What you should say is already in your question.
"I'm not ready to have sex with you yet."
He should understand and wait until you are 100% ready. Don't just do it because he wants to. It's not worth it.

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Matt answered Saturday December 15 2007, 2:50 am:
"I'm not ready to have sex."

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dATSEXiiMAMii4U answered Friday December 14 2007, 10:02 pm:
tell him you dont want to your not ready. if he ges mad it only says hes with you for the sex.
if he's doesnt want to wait till you feel ready do you really think its worth it being with him.

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kronix answered Friday December 14 2007, 10:01 pm:
Tell him your not ready yet.

Simple as that.

If he threatens to break up with you, then his not worth being your boyfriend.. in other words he just wants sex.

Hope i helped!

Kronix

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