Hey i'm HBA. Well that's what everyone calls me. I love to dance and give advice. I'm best at giving advice on sex or dating or even family problems. But i can try to answer other questions too. I love monkeys. Also i'm bisexual so i can answer guy and girl questions. Well that's all! Talk to you in my advice column.
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Location: Marshall
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
Yahoo: dyemaster21365
Member Since: November 29, 2007
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my boyfriend wants to have sex but i dont know if im ready what should i tell him (link)
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You should tell him that you don't know if your ready or not. so he is gonna have to take it slow. Gradually get to the sex part. If he can't except that then you need to consider if you really want to be with him.
~~HBA~~
Hope i helped
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hi im cloe. So here it is: i met this guy called lets say fred on holiday a few weeks ago, and i really really like him. But (bet u knew tht was coming) he lives quite far away. We get together every so often but i don't thimk its enough. About a week ago i found out my friend lets call him billy, liked me but i didn't feel the same way so i used the excuse i was already seeing fred. Recently like 2 days ago i met another boy, Bob, and i really like him and hes cute and lives close to me. He asked me out and i sed yes. So i told my friend who knows all of the above that i had broke things off with fred, which i haven't done. So now i have to keep Bob and Billy secret from fred even tho that wont b hard cos he lives far away and i have to keep Fred secret from every1 because they will think i'm cheatin on my boyfriend. And i cant tell evey1 bout my boyfriend because i told Billy that i wouldn't break things off with fred because i didnt feel the same about him and now i feel guilty. And im screwed. Help!! (link)
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Ok this is kinda confusing but i'll try to help. What you need to do is tell Billy the truth about Fred and that the reason you lied is because you don't feel the same but didn't want to hurt him. As for Bob and Fred you need to let Fred know that you are seeing someone else now because he lives to far away. If you keep Bob a secret from everyone then he is gonna think your cheating on him anyways. I think that answers everything but incase i missunderstood something your more than welcome to message me back so i can answer them better.
Hope i Helped! :)
~~~HBA~~~
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i lost my virginity, i.e had sex for the first time but i didn't bleed(not even a lil bit). is there something wrong with me? am i alone? im really freaking out here.thanks. (link)
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Your difinitely not alone on this one. When i lost my virginity. I didn't bleed at all. Like that other person said, you could have already popped it or he just didn't penitrate you enough to pop it.
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My 'best friend' is quite the controlling bitch, and she knows it. She lies and minipulates everyone but I don't bother fighting her because I know I won't win. Everyone loves her, everyone wants to be her friend. She knows everything about me and she's hardly mean to me because we've been best friends for years. However lately, she's been getting more and more into drugs and drinking and I can't talk to her like I used to. She's gotten a bunch of her guy friends to beat up an ex of mine because she lied and said my ex beat her up when he didn't.
I still love my ex and we're considering getting back together, but I know she would make my life miserable if I did because she hates him so much. I'm not sure what to do. I'm stuck between the guy I love, my best friend, and our so called friendship. (link)
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Ok if you love your ex, then your best friend should be able to except that you want to be with him. Plus i don't think she is really your friend if she treats you like that. I can be a bitch too but i wouldn't ever do that to my friends. So as hard as it is to hear this, i don't think you need to be friends with her at all. Even though the saying is chicks before dicks, i don't think it applies in this case.
~~~HBA~~~
Hope i helped:)
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