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so worried
ok so me and my boyfriend want to have sex. im 15/f. don't tell me i'm too young or not ready, because i know i am ready. but im just really really worried about getting pregnant. he said that we could do anal sex so i would have a lesser chance of getting pregnant.. so if anybody has had an experiance with that..?? and also, he said he would wear 2 condems, would that make it safer? thanks so much
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DONT wear 2 condoms. That would make it more UNsafe. Don't do anal. That HURTS. Just wear ONE condom and have regular sex if you're so inclined. It wouldn't hurt to be on birth control, either.
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Do NOT use two condoms. That makes them more likely to break.
Anal Sex HURTS. Period. It does. Some people like the pain and get used to it and really enjoy it. Your first time at anal sex, it takes a long time, a lot of lube and a lot of swearing. It hurts like hell. The skin can rip, there can blood and embaressing to explain infections if you do get ripped. It will probably hurt FAR more than your first time having vaginal sex.
Also, that hole leaks. So, it's really not the perfect way to prevent pregnancy. Semen that drips near the vaginal opening, can cause pregnancy. It's a bit less likely, but still possible.
You may be ready hun, but HE is not ready to have sex!
These two ideas of his prove that is an idiot who doesn't know the first damn thing about sex. He should not be trusted when it comes to your body, and maybe not even when it comes to his own.
Do not sleep with him. You'll will end up fucking a moron sooner or later, but always do your best to avoid it.
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Break up with him and become a nun. No need to make any of your future babies suffer.
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Okay wearing two condoms is a big no no, it would be safer, and you would have less of a chance of getting pregnant if your boyfriend just wore one.
If you are that worried about getting pregnant then I suggest you use birth control, you can get it at some places and they won't even tell your parents or ask for a parent signature.
I strongly discourage you from having anal sex your first time. I don't think it would be a pleasant experience, especially if you're a virgin. If you feel your ready for sex then I'll save myself a lecture.
::Jasmine::
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If neither you nor him knew that two condoms means they break easier, then neither of you are ready for sex. And anal sex so you have a "lesser chance of getting pregnant?" How about, since your anus is NOT connected to your girly parts, there's a 100% chance you wont. Jesus, you need to go to sex-ed or something before you think about any of this shit.
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2 condoms can create friction and they will brake ITS NOT SAFE....i would advise useing a condom and going to your doctor to get birth control.
i dont think anal would be to comfortable.
hope i helped<3
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2 condoms.
no.
that doesnt make it safer.
and anal. idk. im not the person to really answer that one.
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noooooo don't use two condoms that gives you a more likely chance of getting pregnant. use one condom and try getting birth control. those are your best options..
also with anal..i have never done it, but i heard its very uncomfortable. but you may like that. do whatever you feel is comfortable (:
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