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Question Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 2:28 am

does having sex hurt?
and how much does it bleed the firt time you have it?

oh and does it hurt to be fingered


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LilAngelOfDoom answered Friday December 14 2007, 6:12 pm:
For the first time it does.
But then everyone is different.
It doesnt always bleed.
Now thats getting into popping your cherry.
Now my favorite question.
Does it hurt being fingered.
Defintely NOT!
but maybe if you want to see if it hurts, try fingering yourself first b4 letting the guy finger you.
In my opinion I feel like you should finger yourself, before having sex.
i dont mean the minute but like anytime b4.
but makesure his fingers are clean!
&& trimmed. because you can catch a disease.
13/f Hope i helped!

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queenhearts answered Tuesday December 11 2007, 7:54 pm:
It depends since it's different for everyone. I don't think it's wise to jump into sex if you haven't been fingered. You need to be wet so fingering doesn't hurt and he should have his nails trimmed, and use only one finger then move up to 2, 3 in time.

my first time didn't hurt. i didn't bleed either. so it really depends how much you were fingered or how tight you are. whether you broke your hymen before or not. just take your time. be relaxed and it shouldn't feel like somebody's splitting you apart.

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iiyaxExtrinsic answered Sunday December 9 2007, 11:36 pm:
does having sex hurt?
- it only depends if you are stretched or tight / or if the guy is big or small ,

if you are tight in your viginal area and the guy is big , it will most likely hurt ,

if you are stretched and the guy is small , it may not hurt .

it jsut depends on if you have had anything up you , like: masterbating or getting fingered ,

if you havn't then it probably will hurt you because you are getting stretched out .




and if it is your first time getting fingered then it may hurt the first time , but the second time around may be better because you are getting more stretched out each time .


xoxo

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Marie34 answered Sunday December 9 2007, 8:49 pm:
Um not to scare you but my first time KILLED. I have no idea why but it was the worst pain ever. Sorry lol I don't mean to scare you or anything. After a few minutes the pain does go away and its fine after that.

And fingering doesn't really hurt. It may feel a little different at first but it really doesn't hurt.

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StarryNightSkies answered Sunday December 9 2007, 2:25 pm:
when i had sex it didn't hurt me at all.
and i didnt bleed either.
it all depends on your pain threshold how much pain you can tolerate.
the bleeding on the other hand, it depends on the size of the penis is and how thick your hyman is.

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cloudy_conscience answered Sunday December 9 2007, 1:07 pm:
It is really different for everyone. For example, it didn't hurt me at all and i didnt bleed much at all, but for other people it can feel like pressure or pain and they bleed for a while. It may also depend on the size of the boy's penis and if you rip while having intercourse.

Hope I helped =]

cloudy_conscience.

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CaliDaniels answered Sunday December 9 2007, 12:37 pm:
This stuff is different for everyone. When I had sex the first time, it was more like pressure than pain. I also didin't bleed at all. It also didn't hurt me the first time I was fingered. Stretching and masturbation can help.
-16/f

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teardrops7 answered Sunday December 9 2007, 9:36 am:
well if your cherry pops it should start to bleed right away and for about 5-15 minutes.
And yes if it is your first time for sex or for fingering, and even sometimes after the first time, it will hurt. But once you get used to it, then it shouldnt hurt anymore.
xoxo
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