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this girl wants to give me a makeover
well okay im a 16/f and i live in katy,texas my name is nikita. well in my computer applications class there's this girl named nelma karina. & she black but doesn't act black at all and she acts really white. and she's really popular at my school i guess you could say. and she's really loud and gets a lot of attention. well anyways, well she told me that her and this other girl jessica rodriguez are both in cosmetology class and are doing this project where they pick someone to give a makeover. well she asked me if i wanted to do it becuase she says alot of people talk about me and say im messy and start drama. and i'll agree i've done some bad things and have said stuff about people becuase when people talk about me i get mad. and she said she wants to help me change that as well as my look. well i asked my friend jackie if nelma and her other friend jessica are in her cosmetology and she said no so nelma lied to me about that. and she wants me to take pics of myself to see what i need to imrove and pt on weight because im so skinny. and im not sure if she's really doing this as a cruel joke since she lied to me. and i really want to know should i do all this?? please help me!! asap!!!
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DO NOT do it! If you think its a trick then it probably is. Trust your intuition. And who gives makeovers to random people anyway? Seems like a joke to me. If I were you I would go up to her and tell her to go give herself a makeover.
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I would not do it. The fact that she put you down shows that she is not truly concerned about you! This sounds an awful lot like a nasty trick to me. I think if you have any doubts about her you should definitely not trust her! Just say "No, thank you." and walk away from her. If you want to change yourself for yourself, do so, but what makes her so better than you?
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Don't do it. You will get hurt and be the laughing stock of the school. Just tell her you're not doing it and be short and to the point. Don't mention how you found out that she wasn't taking the class, it will just start drama. Tell her you're happy with who you are.
~Maria, 16
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ok. first of all, never, ever ever and i do mean NEVER change the way you look for someone else. yes, it could be true that this is a cruel joke. But also there is beauty in every heart as well as darkness and ugliness. dont change the way you are, unless you fully want to. dont change yourself because of what others say. i will definately bet that you are a pretty girl. there are just some people that want to make you feel bad because of things that happened to them. youre beautiful, no matter what bad things you have done. remember that.
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well if she lied about being in the class.. then i dont think i would do it, i think it might be a joke but then again maybe she is just trying to be nice, ask her about it, tell her you found out she wasnt in that class.
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