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boyfriend.
me and my bf have been going out for almost a month. and he is so amazing. but i just get these feelings sometimes that he doesn't feel the same way about me. when we first started going out he would call me. but now he doesn't i call him sometimes. but lately we haven't been able to talk much. he always tells me he will call back and he never does. and it bugs the crap out of me. sometimes i end up calling him back. im gonna stop because i feel lke im being to obsessed. like right now i want to talk to him but i know i shouldn't call. but i know he won't. but sometimes i call and he is completely silent. ahh what should i do?!?!?
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Ask him. Tell him you want a truthful answer. If he's just messing you about, you want to know right? even if you don't like what he tells you, you can then get on with your life knowing whats what. If you do nothing, you'll spend months worrying about what's going on and only end up making yourself ill. Talk to him.
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this happened to me once too. the guy always used to call me at the beginning and then after awhile he stopped calling me as much. i figured out that he really did like talking to me on the phone he just was shy or didnt want to make the effort because he liked it when i called him too. sometimes guys dont want to be the only ones making the effort in the relationship! he probably likes it that you call him too. some guys are just like that. you probably arent annoying him. if its really bothering you.. talk to him about it.
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You need to talk to him and find out why it is he doesn't call anymore. Only he knows what is going on inside his head.
I wouldn't keep pestering him with phone calls. I'd call once a day if you are calling daily, rather than calling and calling.
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just talk to him about the relationship. he might be busy if he plays sports or stuff. this stuff has happened to me and talking about it made things better for me. dont avoid the subject though. then it just makes it awkward for when you two actually do talk.
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maybe this guy is busy... one of my guy friends used to like me and he would always call me in like the middle of the night and I didn't want to wake up my parents, so i'd answer then hang up and then text him and be like "stop! lol" and it was just really fun. But now he doesn't do that anymore and it gets boring without him. So i just assume that he's busy. Guys will be guys.
he probably is
- playing sports
- busy with school
- has family problems or emergencies
- or in somekind of huge crisis.
I'd let him be for a little bit. Let him come to you when he's ready. If you keep calling him, he's going to get annoyed and maybe even break up with you. So give him space and time and let him come to you when he's ready. Make sure that you tell him that you love him and that you're always there for him whenever he needs you. Most girls don't tell their boyfriends that and their boyfriends think that they can't come to their girlfriends for help. So make sure he understands that. Then let him come to you.
If its' been like 2 weeks that he's not been calling you... then find somewhere private and ask him what's going on. See if there's anything that is bothering him and help him out.
If he still isn't talking to you or calling you, then it might be best to cut the cord between you guys until he gets things right.
I hope I helped and I wish the best of luck to you both.
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