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havent wanting to live with my family im 14 and i already know what i wantt. i know that i HATEE my family[mom dad sister,17] with a burning passion that cann never be describeed. likee it reallyy wouldnt matter to me if i didnt lived with them anymore. they dont listen to a word i sayy, there always on eachothers siddee, like im neverr everr right, my parents sent me to a catholic high school which i absolutly HATEE ! and they know i dont wanna go there and never did want to, and i have the most amazing friends that i never see besides the weekend. im starting to make friends but i would choose my old friends over everything. i would do annyytthingg for them, and i mean anything. we all feel the same way about eachother. and if i continue to liv with this family and go to catholic school i dont think ill even make it to junior year... watever i just wanna know if theres anyway to have my parents hear me out. on anythingg, on letting me go live with one of my friends, or live anywhere else beisdes here.
oh ps. my parents are divorced but live within a mile of eachother and are SERIOUSLY strict about my grades like if i get lower than an 80-85 theyll flip a shit. they wnat me to be there perfect daughter. and im not like a bad perosn like i hang out with a good group a friends im not underr the influence or anything. ughh i hate them soooooo much. oh and if they hit me, i hit them back cause i could care less.
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i have to agree with the person below.. i think its a maturity factor. i dont think your stupid or anything. i moved out when i was 14 because i hated the way my mom ran the house. to be honest moving out was worse. you have to pay bills, get a job, have school and pass or your wastign your time and youll be stuck at a fast food place making minimum wage. if you disown your family who are you going to rely on when you need soemthing? i think you really need to just hold tight threw all that junk and think of it as.. my parents want me to get atleast Bs.. that is going to help me when i go to college. that will be give disapline, i will learn to deal with people i dont like msot of the time, because when i get into the working world my boss and co workers wont give too much of a shit either. i really think you just need to think about things a little bit more than just HATING IT BECAUSE ITS NOT WHAT YOU WANT.. you know?.. i hope thsi deosnt sound harsh and mean but hating is easy loving takes courage.
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Well, they won't listen to you if you don't show maturity. I'm sorry, but all this talk about how much you hate your family, hate your school, and not making it to junior year don't sound like very mature ideas at all.
Do you think my parents would have listened to me if I spouted all that crap? That's a big "Hell No."
It isn't going to kill you to get an education and make GOOD grades so you can actually go out into the adult world and make something of yourself. Even though you don't like the school you go to, you need to take advantage of the education you NEED and DESERVE.
You don't get your way all the time, you can't always have what you want, and as a rule, you always have to do things you don't want to do and go places you don't want to go.
It's called the "Real World." That is life, kid.
Hitting your parents is immature and disrepsectful. Just because they hit you, doesn't mean you have to do the same. If you hate them so much, why act like them?
Also, you need to open your eyes to the fact that family is the most important thing in the world. If you hate your family and don't want to be a part of it, no matter how dysfunctional it may be, then you have absolutely NOTHING in this world.
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Ok well I'm sure ur parents like you they probly just have I hard time showing it. Sometimes family Isn't the best place for comfort. You should try to talk to your friends about it and tell them how you hate that stuff it will make you feel better to talk about it I promise. Maybe you could convince your parents to spend a summer with your friends and see them on the weekends and stuff so you could have a gettaway from them for awhile. And stay in school, I know it sucks and you don't wanna go but if you finish high school, you will really be alot better off and your parents will be alot happier. Just stay strong and rely on good friends that have your back. I hope this helped!!! -
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One big happy family you got going there. Come on, lighten up. Your parents CARE about you. They want you to have a good education, and want you to be safe and get the best opportunities. Do you really think they hate you? Why would they get you into a Catholic high school and worry about you. Why would they send you away to a friend's house? I would think that they would do THAT to get rid of you. They really love you, trust me. Think of all those kids that don't have parents to love and care about them, and annoy them if you will. Get to know your mom and dad and sister. I'm guessing that you never really bonded with them. Go golfing, go have some fun where no one has to be moody or sad. You're going to be stuck with them for AT LEAST 4 more years, but you are related to them and they do love you. I'm sure that they're really upset that you "hate" them. I would be too. Just try to accept that your parents can be annoying (all parents are), but they still love and care about you. And remember, they're better than none at all. And I'm sure you'd care if they just disappeared. Just tell them you're going to need some time alone, and if they could just let you be for a while. It's Thanksgiving tomorrow; give thanks for what you have. Hope I helped and good luck.
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