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My girlfriend acts like a lesbian with her friends!
My problem is simple. My girlfriend is always pertending to be a lesbian with her friends (in front of me!) . They arent making out with each other and i know that they are definetly not real lesbians (or bisexual). I think that they are just trying to make me jealous. What should i do? By the way, im 14 years old and so is she. Now, im not saying that it isnt amusing to watch, but, i want her to give me some public attention, too. What should i do?
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Sadly, she is just trying to make you attracted to her because most guys think lesbians are hot. But this is something she will grow out of.. hopefully. It's called maturity. Me...I NEVER acted like that when I was 14. Just because although guys find it hot, they don't want their girlfriend to act like that. It's just hot when it isn't their girlfriend. So you can do one of three things. Ignore it and hope she grows out of this immature little phase, talk to her in private and tell her that it kind of annoys you that she acts that way and ask her why she acts like that which may cause some unwanted drama, especially if she gets offended and acts immature, or you can try and show her you find her sexy, a.k.a. Public Displays of Affection(PDA). Kiss her when she is near her friends, tell her how gorgeous she looks and how hot she is, etc. This may show her that you find her hot and she doesn't need to do that to get your attention. Hope I helped. Let me know what happens :)
~Sherah
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I have a friend who's sort of in your same boat. His girlfriend doesn't actually pretend to be a lesbian, but she and her friends always hug each other and say I love you... and it really bugs him. He also gets irritated when they act silly and talk about all their inside jokes. I guess in a way it just makes him feel a little left out.
But the fact is, girls do silly stuff like that. If you make a big deal about it, or let her know it bugs you, it will just become an issue. I say just ignore it... it's probably just a quick phase and they'll stop doing it soon enough. Then they'll move on to some other silly thing that irritates you just as much! HAHA
And just for the record... when guys are with their friends, they do goofy stuff that bugs their girlfriends just as much! So you're not alone. Just try to ignore it.
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me and my friends do that,lol ..we dont o.d it though and we dont really do that infront of my boyfriend..i think she just wants you to think shes sexy or something..you should seriously do what the other girl told you to do. or just talk to her and tell her you want her to your self when shes with you..but make her feel like your being sweet
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well most guys think it is hott when girls are all over each other. its wrong but true. mayber she wants you to think she is hott or something..also sometimes if friends are really close they act like that just to joke around...next time she does that just like grab her sweetly, but aggressively and say "hey now she's mine you can have her when im done" then like plant a kiss on her. that way it is a sense of hilarity..you know what im saying??
xoxo
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