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I feel like crying :(
well someone left a really mean message on my myspace (on a little notepad thing, so I don't know who it's from). it said "you're an ugly stupid hoe. jk girl i love you! or at least, i have to pretend i do!"
well, i'm definitely not stupid or a hoe, and i don't think i'm ugly. so i know i shouldnt let this bother me, but i've felt like crying ever since i saw it. and i cant stop wondering who wrote it. one of my "friends?" someone i don't really know? and why would they write that? i'm not mean or stuck up... i'm always really nice to everyone! my mom says someone is just jealous of me, but that doesn't make me feel any better. it just really hurts to know that someone secretly hates me. how can i stop feeling so bad about this?
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Ugh, people think they can say whatever their little heart desires just because their protected by a computer. They think that they can be as mean as they want, as long as they`re friends go along with it. Just ignore it. Trust me, I used to get so mad when people told me to do that. But honestly, it takes a long time to realize this. The nicer you are, the meaner some people will be to you. Some people are just that way. It`s not that you`ve done anything wrong -- they are just extremely insecure or extremely jealous. Chances are, you`re not ugly. People call people ugly & fat just because they`re uncreative & stupid, so it`s the first thing that comes to their mind. And trust me, it is NOT true.
If you really wanna find out who it is...
If that was exactly the way it was typed, think of someone who types like that. Like who says jk instead of just kidding, who doesn`t capitalize stuff, who cusses, etc.
The way most of the gossip, drama, etc. is started is simply by jealousy. Just remember that.
Go to the mall.
Go to the movies.
Best things to take your mind off of anything!
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Good luck!
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It was either one of your friends just joking around with you, or someone who doesnt know you and is trying to be a pain! Dont listen to them, its really no big. Ive had worse happen to me!
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Whatever you do, try not to let it bother you.
There's a few possibilities:
1. It's someone you know trying to be funny and play a joke on you.
2. It's someone you don't know or isn't your friend who is trying to stir things and make you upset.
3. The last possibility is it *could* be a friend.
Either way, don't let it get to you. Don't think someone secretly hates you. It's bad to just assume the worst.
Delete the comment and let that be the end. Don't show you're upset about it - because as of now, you don't know who it is. and if you show your emotions towards it, the person who did it may get to hear you're sad and post more.
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You shouldn't feel bad about it. As long as you know that you're not ugly, stupid or a ho, it doesn't matter. GET OVER IT. Why would someone who is so mean matter anyway? Just delete the comment or something and forget about it. Sorry if this isn't the answer you want to hear, but you really do need to get over it. My friends poke at each other all the time. (ex. Katie, why are you so ugly? I saw a 6-year-old cry when she looked at you yesterday.) It doesn't mean anything.
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Aww hun, myspace is the number 1 place for cyber bullies. It may not be anyone you know personally or maybe it was a friend just trying to kidd around with you. like the person below me said, they probably wrote it without thinking it would offend you or sound as bad as it did. Just try to forget about it and if it shows up again make it so you're profile is private and only friends can email you. Hope I helped :))
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Stop worrying about who wrote it, you might never know.
Ask yourself this instead: Why did they write it?
Well, they wrote it to upset you of course! Look at how wonderfully effective it was.
OR
They didn't realize how it would sound and had no desire to be mean at all.
Stop letting it get to you by reminding yourself that is probably has more to do with them being a bored and clueless then it has to do with who YOU are.
It's not like they were giving you constructive criticism or voicing a valid complaint against you. There is nothing for you to respond to in a comment like that, it was just stupidly mean. It doesn't deserve an ounce of notice. Ignore it.
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