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hey for all of thegguyss or girls it dnt matta.
hey im a girl
i just wnana kno
why guys do this
1:they like ignore you for a day and then the next they start talkin to you
2:they are so confusin sometiems uthink they like you beccacuse of thyre smile or something
and you neverrealy now
why do they give mixed signals??
Haha
thats all really
:P thanks
PEACE
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I think you pretty much summed it up.
"you neverrealy now"
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Im a 13/m . We guys are a bit more restricted and nervous about saying our emotions... Sometimes we have "pushes" of confidence and we try stuff (little smile to a cute girl we like) then sometimes, the next day, we think we were stupid to do that cuz you might think were weird... so we wait a day or two to give you time to forget bout it then the story kinda repeats itself...
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for #1. There are a couple possibilities as to why guys act like that. One, it might be because he likes you and is a little nervous, so that's why he doesn't talk to you All the time. Two, and this is the painful truth... you might be dressed differently than you usually are. See, if a girl is wearing a t-shirt on the rgular basis, and than all of a sudden, puts a little makeup on, or wears a tighter shirt and jeans, yeah the gu is gonna notice you.
for #2. It's always easier to tell if a boy likes you, than it is for a boy to tell if a girl likes him. Believe it or not, it's pretty easy to tell if a guy likes you, usually. If a guy is smiling EVERY time he talks to you. Yeah he is thinking about you in a good way. If you see him tryna find something to talk about with you, he's interested. If he plays around with you, teases you, he wants you. But the most OBVIOUS thing that happens if a guy likes you...is the smile*. A guy CANNOT refuse to smile if he is looking at you and definitely talking to you. I'm telling you all of this happens 90% of the time. Boys are horrible when it comes to hiddin their thoughts about you.
Hope this helps.
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Ha, I just answered a question like this. But I found this information on a website a while back, and it explains why guys do that whole ignoring you, then not thing.
"Like a rubber band, some men can pull away periodically to remain close to their partners. Most men go through a cycle of getting close, pulling away, and getting close again. This is like a very hungry person eating a large meal and feeling very satisfied and then not focusing on food for a while until they are hungry again. Once a man satisfies his need for closeness, he turns his attention to work or other interests until he feels the need to reconnect. Like a stretched rubber band, he will automatically spring back after he has taken the time to pull away.
This switching between needing intimacy and independence is instinctual for some men and it can be confusing and painful to a woman. It’s important to learn if it’s a reflection of how the man feels about the relationship or his partner, or has he simply had his fill and is instinctively reaching out to satisfy other goals/ needs in his life.
Typically, once a man has fully experienced feeling independent from his partner, he will instantly become aware of his need for love and intimacy and automatically spring back to the relationship. If he is reacting to this natural process he will pick up the relationship at whatever level of intimacy he left it when he stretched away. It is important to determine if this behavior is normal or is he pulling away for other reasons.
This common and normal behavioral pattern can cause enormous difficulties in a relationship, especially if the woman does not understand why her partner is pulling away. Typically it can cause a woman to worry about the security of her relationship and it can cause men to wonder why she doubts their relationship. All around, if the rubber band theory is not clearly understood, and if a woman does not have helpful secondary support in her life, this issue can cause countless hours of unnecessary worry and turmoil."
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1. They don't wanna talk to you one day, then later they feel like it. That's really all there is to it; it depends on the guy's mood or how starved they are for attention.
2. Girls give mixed signals too; everyone does. That's because no one trusts each other. No one wants to put all their eggs in one basket. They aren't sure if you're someone they can trust to be the girlfriend they want.
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That is MOST guys for you........if they really like you then most guys wont come right out an tell you and then things like this happen......ten to one he probably likes you so just talk to him.
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they want to test the waters. i.e. as in see how you react towards them in both cases to be able to tell if you like them back.
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