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Losing Grip
I feel like my life is falling apart...it seems like every good step i take i fall behind another step...i come from a broken home and my step mom is the best thing that has happened since then but my parents fight and my real mom and i don't even speak.......and i just feel like the new family we have created is going to fall down the same path as my father's first marrige??????
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Hi,
I'm sorry about your relationship with your mother. It is really hard when your family doesn't get along. But I think it is wonderful that you and your step-mom get along well. That's great!
If there is no reason to believe that your "new" family will fall down the same path, then don't worry about it. Maybe a mistake was made in the past, and people have learned from it (I don't know the situation). But no matter what happened in the past, your family gets a chance to start over. It is probably still painful, but it is something new. And getting a fresh start shouldn't include worrying that past events might repeat themselves, especially if there are no signs of that happening.
So above all, relax and cherish your family. Get close with your step-mom, and if possible try to repair things with your mom.
I really hope things go well for you. If you have a question or want to talk, leave me a message in my inbox. Good luck. :)
~Hannah
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Thanks for your feedback, but I didn't really understand what you meant by "thanks but I am just really emotional." Did I not answer your question? What exactly were you looking for?
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There's no reason why it will. Let yourself enjoy it; not everything falls apart.
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