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hey im a girl
i just wnana kno
why guys do this
1:they like ignore you for a day and then the next they start talkin to you
2:they are so confusin sometiems uthink they like you beccacuse of thyre smile or something
and you neverrealy now
why do they give mixed signals??
Haha
thats all really
:P thanks
PEACE (link)
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for #1. There are a couple possibilities as to why guys act like that. One, it might be because he likes you and is a little nervous, so that's why he doesn't talk to you All the time. Two, and this is the painful truth... you might be dressed differently than you usually are. See, if a girl is wearing a t-shirt on the rgular basis, and than all of a sudden, puts a little makeup on, or wears a tighter shirt and jeans, yeah the gu is gonna notice you.
for #2. It's always easier to tell if a boy likes you, than it is for a boy to tell if a girl likes him. Believe it or not, it's pretty easy to tell if a guy likes you, usually. If a guy is smiling EVERY time he talks to you. Yeah he is thinking about you in a good way. If you see him tryna find something to talk about with you, he's interested. If he plays around with you, teases you, he wants you. But the most OBVIOUS thing that happens if a guy likes you...is the smile*. A guy CANNOT refuse to smile if he is looking at you and definitely talking to you. I'm telling you all of this happens 90% of the time. Boys are horrible when it comes to hiddin their thoughts about you.
Hope this helps.
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Ok how do I word this...Ok so last night I got into another fight with Eric. ...The third one this week. See lately, he's been telling me he hates himself and i deserve better than him. But then the next day he'll be like "Go Die XD" and its ridiculous. But he's really good friends with this guy, Mark. And Mark is an amazing guy. He's always there for me and my friends keep telling me he likes me and I might like him back...But if I stop being friends with eric..me and Mark will probably drift. And last night Eric blocked me from aim and I've been up all night watching prince of bel-air and eating straight from a tub of ice cream :/ I can't deal with this. I don't want to lose Mark and I really don't want to lose Eric either but its probably better if i do. WHAT DO I DO. (link)
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If Eric is making you stress this way, get rid of him. But first, to make sure Mark likes you. Ask him out. Talk to him and tell him the truth about how Eric treats you and admit that you have feelings for him. If he aggrees with you and says he likes you, get rid of Eric. If your going out with Mark, you won't drift away from him even though you stop bieng friends with Eric. Follow your heart. If you like Mark, tell him. Hope this helps.
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I am preganant and my baby is due in a week. No I didn't choose to have sex I was raped by my sisters ex-boyfriend and I don't believe in abortion or adoption. I need some baby names (boys and girls) I want the baby to be a suprise so I didn't want to know the gender. I like strange names like Savannah, Nevaeh (nuh-vey-uh its heaven spelled backwards), Jayden, Cayden.
any names like that.
Thanks for the help! (link)
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how about Aajayla, Ayroshella, Emyra, Azerai, Layla, Durema, Bethany, Garnette, Kikaya, Timeree, Amaru, Amari, Chloe, Sayuri, Shakari, Leela, Persayas, Persephani, Phontiva, Kira, Dasia, India, Xayla or Zayla, Xena, Yuna, or Viyan (Vee-Yawn).
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ok, I'm 13 and I babysit for this lady who has three kids. One is autistic. She pays me $10. Not an hour. The whole 4-6 hours I babysit. It doesn't seem fair to me but I hate to say something because she is a close friend of my mom and has done many things for our family. Her family doesn't have a whole lot of money either. what should i do? (link)
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You kind of answered your own question. If they really don't have alot of money, then they can't give more than that.
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does anyone know any websites to go to myspace. i mean like a proxy site because my mom blocked mysapce!! (link)
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www.3proxy.com
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ok i need a guy to tell me what guys really look for in a girl. (link)
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ok, sry I'm a girl, but you don't want a guy to answer this question because guys don't even know what they want. Basically & honestly, what a guy notices first about you is your chest & butt then face. Sadly, yes they do look at those parts first. And next (this is key!) Guys ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO LOUD GIRLS! If it happens it is very rare. Bieng loud is intimidating, and annoying. But bieng too quiet is not good either but it's better than bieng loud. Guys love attention but not the stalker type. They do not like too much makeup. Tried it, crashed and burned. Guys don't like girls who don't take care of themselves, (hygiene). And Guys are not too fond of a girl who doesn't have a little tomboy in them, but if your a total tomboy, this might be tough for you because boys do not like a girl that is stronger than them! (it's a guy ego thing, can't be helped it's in their DNA) That's basically it. Hope this helps.
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omggg i really like this guy alott!! and its werid cus his two friends like me, and i could easily have them...but for some reason i want him, maybe because he dusnt act really flirty..i duno. hes like super shy, so i cant tell if he likes me or not, and its killling me!! cus i dont want to 'bug' him if he dusnt like me the least way...ive tried snooping, but got nothing....anyone know how to tell if a shy guy likes you?
(and its not as easy as "hes shy around you so he likes you" cus hes shy around all girls)
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Best thing to do when you want to know if he likes you, get to know him. Always smile when he does. Be patient. As you get to know him, if he starts to steal glance at you, if it's for more than than a second, he's definitly thinking of you. Don't ask him out until you get to know him. Figure out what he likes, his intrests, his hobbies. Be yourself. And it is a definite good thing if his friends like you. Because if his friends like you, they will always say GOOD things about you to him. Just make sure you are not to flirty, but kind of let him know you are there for him. Friends turning into bf & gf is better than Strangers turning into bf & gf. Hope this helps.
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hey people,
im a young male and im talkin about my girlfriend
i had just had my girlfriend break up with me a couple of days ago and it was really hard on me. I was the cause of the breakup because i wasn't being open enough to her and when she said "i feel like im neglecting you," and just said no and she asked if something was wrong and i said no. when we hung up i had decided that i needed to tell her what i felt so i messaged her and said honestly i do feel neglected and she got mad because i didnt talk to her on the phone when i had the chance. so she got mad and later said you no i'm mad at you and im fed up with your shit. so she had ended it and she said i just havent felt like we are close like we were at first. this all hurt me bad and she wouldn't talk to me because i wanted to talk to her and explain to her how i felt.
so the next day she ignored me and i couldnt talk to her and the next day i tried to get her off my mind but it didnt work so i went to my dad and brother to talk to them about it. i had listened to them and they had the same points.
so what i did was go to her house the next day with out her knowing and had a bunch of nice flowers. She had a smile on her face and didnt seem mad at me so i take that as being good?. i gave her the flowers and went into her room to talk to her. i told her that i really like her and i really care for her. i said you no every relationship has rough patches and you have to try to get through them instead of just quitting on the relationship. (she promised herself that she would never give a guy a second chance by the way.) i just asked her if she could promise me that she will think about a second chance while she was in colorado (this was later in the talk that i had asked her if she would think about a second chance). she said i will and i said the way u had ended it really hurt me alot and i just wanted her to think about the second chance for more than just one day. just please think about it because the idea of being without you really hurts because i care for you and i want to be there for you. she said she would think about it while she was there. the next thing i said was you know this is my first true relationship and im goin to make mistakes and i will admit when i do and im willing to try to work on that and i really want to be open with you and try to stop arguing about little things. just promise me you will think about the second chance and get back to me when you get back. i really care for you and we gave each other a huge hug and i told her in her ear that i really care for you and i said i need to go because i just wanted to say this and be on my way and not get in ur way. and oh yeah i told her the reasons why i felt why we were growing apart earlier. and i also said im not goin to beg or force you for the second chance and i wont talk to you or text you while you're up there so that gives you your freedom to think. then came the hug and leaving part. some of this wasn't in the right order but you get the idea. so can ya'll tell me if i did the right thing?
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You know, you did more than the right thing. I don't think that you not opening up to her was a good reason for her to breakup with you. A person in a relationship should be patient and understand that it takes time to really open up. But you did very well. Telling her how you felt was key. And I'm positive it will work. If it doesn't, she's not the one for you. I can tell you are a great person and I hope she's able to see that.
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hey
15/f
I wanna start off by saying that I dont want to sound stuck up or into myself or anything.
Anyway, I havnt had my first kiss yet. Im not prude. Alot of guys like me and think im hot, something just usually goes wrong before I kiss them. I've done other stuff, just not kissing. Is this really lame?
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When I do have my first kiss, I want it to seem like I know what im doing. Can I do this through just being confident or should I practice or something....? Also are first kisses really that important? Or should I just get it over with so I have some experience for someone I do really really like
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It's perfectly fine if you havn't had your first kiss yet. Try not to force your first kiss on anyone, kind of just let it happen. When it happens it will happen. If you have doubts on how to kiss, here's an idea. It's kind of like eating icecream, (don't laugh, lol) When you put your whole mouth on the icecream, you stroke your tongue up and down. A kiss is usually slow and steady. Hope this helps.
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Okay so I need help. And FAST! I've got a male betta who I've had for a short amount of time now and today he decided to show me that he indeed does know how to jump. I was cleaning his water like I ALWAYS have and I put meds in it because I expect him to be sick and I left him in a little bowl for awhile to let the medicine dilute in his water. LIKE I ALWAYS HAVE. Well, this time I come back a few hours later and he is out of the bowl and in the tub no longer moving. He moved when I touched him so he wasn't completely dead, just totally black on the side he was laying on. So I tossed him quickly into his new bowl and at first it wasnt too bad. he floated vertically with his mouth above the water and he swam just fine when I chased him with my finger. Now however is another story. He acts as though he is paralyzed and only his little fins would move. I can twirl him around in the water and he wont move. I still think he's breathing and he moves after awhile of bothering him. But not very far. He just twitches a little. Well I'm very worried about him and I don't want him to die. Is there anything I can do, or is all hope lost? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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First of all, putting your hands in the bowl is a little dangerous. You should never do it often, or at all exept when you are cleaning it. If he is jumping out, put a lid over the top. If he seems stiff, he might have had a reaction to the medicine or something in the water, or the temperature. Maybe you should take him to some kind of vet. I hope this helps.
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Okay. I like this guy, he works at the movies. We're in a class at school together and we talk from time to time. This may sound selfish, but I want him to like me, like perhaps take our friendship to another level, above acquaintances. I guess I want to be more of a flirt, I'm usually good at this, but I guess I just need some help. I'm a freshman and he's a senior. Any advice?
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Step it up a bit. Every time your around him, make sure your hair isn't messy, don't put on too much make up (if you wear any). And mostly be yourself. Talk to him more. Guys love attention but not too much like stalker type. Ask him about himself, sports, interests. And always smile when he looks at you. But don't stare the man down. Don't act too needy. Kind of let him know that you like him, but try not to creep him out, you know? Compliment him often. Don't ask him out unless you feel you are good friends. Kind of invite him to an event but don't make it seem like it's a date. Hope this helps...
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