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likes me or no


Question Posted Tuesday August 7 2007, 12:39 am

omggg i really like this guy alott!! and its werid cus his two friends like me, and i could easily have them...but for some reason i want him, maybe because he dusnt act really flirty..i duno. hes like super shy, so i cant tell if he likes me or not, and its killling me!! cus i dont want to 'bug' him if he dusnt like me the least way...ive tried snooping, but got nothing....anyone know how to tell if a shy guy likes you?

(and its not as easy as "hes shy around you so he likes you" cus hes shy around all girls)


thanks in advance :]


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phatdopelove answered Tuesday August 7 2007, 10:29 am:
Does he know you like him? Let him know.

If he is PAINFULLY a really shy guy then you may have to take intiative to go up to him. See how he reacts, and if he doesn't talk try talking to him, just in any way just don't scare him off.

1)Shy guys look at you when you're not looking.
Then when you catch him at it, he turns the other way.
2) He talks to EVERYBODY else BUT you.
He chokes on his words, and turns silent when you come around.
3)Smile at you from afar but when closer to you he won't look.
4)If his face turns red or his face is all flustered ,sweaty like.
5) He follows you,you see him in the same line, etc.
6) He mirror images you. If a guy likes you, he imitates what your doing. Ex: You have your hands folded, he has his hands folded. You cross your legs, he crosses his.
7) He fixes his clothes, mess with his hair,belt, touch his face.

To be sure, ask his friends if he likes you or ask his friends who likes and take it from there.

Hope this helps.

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ComplexMind answered Tuesday August 7 2007, 6:31 am:
I happen to be sort of a "shy guy" so advice coming from me could be valuable.

I'm shy because I don't want to be thought of in a way I didn't want to be.

Put him on the spot to talk to you, GET HIM ALONE!!!

Getting him alone will be the best way for him to open up to you. If he doesn't open up to you, he may not fancy you all that much. :P

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Surenity answered Tuesday August 7 2007, 1:51 am:
Best thing to do when you want to know if he likes you, get to know him. Always smile when he does. Be patient. As you get to know him, if he starts to steal glance at you, if it's for more than than a second, he's definitly thinking of you. Don't ask him out until you get to know him. Figure out what he likes, his intrests, his hobbies. Be yourself. And it is a definite good thing if his friends like you. Because if his friends like you, they will always say GOOD things about you to him. Just make sure you are not to flirty, but kind of let him know you are there for him. Friends turning into bf & gf is better than Strangers turning into bf & gf. Hope this helps.

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