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My (not so) happy life.
I hate to say it, but -- Loneliness is getting the best of me. I want to be able to say "God is enough, all i need to be happy" or "I'm satisfied just having my family and a few close friends", but I can't, I'm not. I constantly find myself longing for the "myspace" life. Having lots of gorgeous female friends and funny male friends to do fun things with and take lots of pictures with. To have people constantly calling me. TO FEEL LOVED. This is not a question of how to make friends - go out, join a sports club, church group.. I know, I know, I know. Whatever.
I probably wouldn't be satisfied anyways. I keep longing for other peoples lives. And in a weak attempt to become them.. I get their hairdos, clothing styles, and even opinions. But (ofcourse) it doesn't work.
Help me please, I can't remember ever being satisfied. I've always hated myself, my friends, my life.
I'm lonely and I fear always feeling this way.
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oh wow;;
thats crazy i'm the same way everything you do I do i want everything you want--
dont feel bad because your not the only one!!
what am always told is to just set back dont let what you want take over you be who you are and take a step back from what you wish you where!
one day where going to get what we want so dont worry much londer my love (:
i hope soon though but hey if you EVER need any help im ALWAYS here swear on that <--
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I FEEL THE EXACT EXACT EXACT SAME WAY AS YOU! IDENTICAL! It was weird when i read this! i was like OMG! THAT IS EXACTLY HOW I FEEL! i was even going to ask a question about this also. But just so you know i know how you feel.
i don't really know how to give advice on this since i feel the same way as you, but i just wanted you to know that you have someone that feels the same way as you and that your not alone. But i always tell myself "how long can things be bad for? i mean things have to get good some day."
and they will but if you ever want to talk or anythng my myspace is www.myspace.com/sportsqueen
it sucks i know its the worst feeling ever
but things will get better you just have to get through with it and try not to let people get you down and stuff thats what i do.
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I know what you're probably going to think before I say this, but just hear me out. I think that you should get some counseling. You're not crazy. You're not stupid. Many, many people feel the way that you do. The problem is, it's affecting you a lot. It's one thing to know that you should be satisfied, but that knowledge isn't going to make you satisfied. It's one thing to feel envious of other people or ideas, but it's quite another to want to and actually try to be like them. This is a really tough situation that you're probably not going to be able to get through on your own. Talking with a friend about it isn't going to help too much because they most likely won't understand what you're going through since they're young too and are facing the same pressures. An adult will either baby you or tell you to grow up, neither of which is what you need. A professional, though, will be able to give you the most good advice and assistance in getting over this. You don't necessarily have to see a psychologist. Just talk to the counselor at your school. There's a reason why they are there. For people like you that have problems that aren't so serious they need to see a doctor or go through extensive therapy. Your school counselor is there for issues of self-esteem, belonging, and the pressures that teens face today. So please talk to a counselor about this, it really will help and you do need help. Good luck. :)
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One thing you always have to remember is to be yourself,not try to be something you're not but,believe many go through that difficult stage,you can beat this desire of wanting to be loved when you go to myspace,all the other thing that you have to do is to try not to go to often on it so you don't get addicted to it,or have this obession,you already know that you have to love yourself the way you are,be able to say that you're proud of who you are and that's the other step towards feeling satisified, and try to find that special person to take away that emptiness that you feel inside eventually you will find that person.
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I hate to say this but i know what you meen !! I've feelt like this for a long time !!
You just have to accept your self for who you are !!
You are you and that aint gonna change even if you wear somone elses clothes have their hair and whatever !!
Look in the mirror and like who you are !!
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