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red hair
15/f
you see i have red hair......down there.....and i really want to have sex w/ my boyfriend but idk if he would be offended, or turned off, cuz i have pubic hair..... should i shave it off?
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He should be ecstatic you're having sex with him, not concerning himself with whether you have pubic hair or not. I honestly cannot imagine a guy getting right down to it, seeing pubic hair, and saying "Shit, I'm leaving." can you?
But in the end its your choice. If you decide to never ever shave there will still be guys who will want to have sex with you, even the ones who prefer shaved.
If you don't care, or you're feeling particularly charitable, go ahead and do it. I'm sure he'd like it. But suggest you not plan to have sex soon after the first time you do it in case you screw up or hurt yourself.
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im sure you wont the straight up truth--and that would be to shave.
99% of guys like it shaven, so if you really want to have sex with him, do it.
its not that big of a deal, its hair, it grows back lol
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yeah im 15 too.. and all the guys ive talked to have said that they prefer it shaved. like most think pubic hair is gross. but honestly dont do anything you dont want to. its your body. if he doesnt accept it then he isnt a very good guy.
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It's your body not his. Whether you shave it partially or completely is your personal decision. Pubic hair is normal and so is no pubic hair these days.
If he can't handle the presence of hair than he's not mature enough to be down there to begin with. Mature men know both is normal and it doesn't matter whether or nt their partners shaves it.
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Ask him what he thinks. That is the only way to know. I can sit here and say "most guys think this" or "most guys think that" or "do what you want to do", but your boyfriend isn't most guys. He is one guy with his own unique opinions about everything. Not all guys think alike. If you're too embarrassed to ask him about it, you're not even close to being ready for sex. Being ready isn't just about being physically ready. You have to be mentally ready too and ready for any and all consequences that may come of it. You need to be able to talk about it.
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never feel bad about yourself, how would that offend him? and personally if your worried about that are you sure hes right for you? you should have no doubts about someones feelings for you when your making love, now if it were going to reach out and grab him, then id worry.[ ha ha] now sweetie if you are uncomfortable with the color shave until your hearts content, make sure you use plenty of cream and water cause razor burn is no fun there. and pre- warning when it starts to grow back in a day or two its like a porcupine, and then it itches, please use protection you have a wonderful life ahead of you BRIE
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