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it really hurts..
My boyfriend for 5 months broke up with me because of another girl. It hurts me a lot.. I really love him and i gave him everything. It's only 2 weeks since we broke up and he is now with that girl. He told me that he loves her already and that there's no chance that we'll get back together.. What is he talking about? Is it that easy to forget the memories we had? Is it that easy to forget someone you loved? Two weeks ago he just told me that he loves me a lot and that i'm the only one for him.. And now, he's inlove with another girl.. He just met that girl in disco and they've already slept together.. His family is doing everything for us to get back together. They told me that they don't like his gf and that i'm the one they want for their son. His brothers are telling me that he still loves me, they said that he's just confused. But i don't feel his love anymore. He doesn't call me anymore. He said that he's not calling because his gf is jealous. He's so mean. His family told me to never give up because they are sure that we'll still get back together. I still love him and i'm still hoping that he'll go back to me.. What should i do now???
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men and women do not think the same, one uses the left side of the brain and the other the right, thank god it wasnt years before it happened, he doesnt love her, he doesnt love himself, feel sorry for her she slept with him and is being used,even though you want to hate her dont its not worth your time. move on you were fine before him and you will be even better after because you have learned not to believe what everyone says,when you said i love you, you understood what it ment, when he says it it probably meant as much as i love hamburgers, not to hurt you but hes very very immature. and im sure his family would love for you to be there waiting to pick up the pieces when this falls apart. no way babe, let someone else, that would only show him that he could do whatever he wants when he wants like a child and you dont need a kid. there are many people out there who will respect and actually love you, and there are the opposite, use what youve learned and find someone else your way better, and you deserve to be treated like it. BRIE
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oh that was a kick in the crotch...
thats so wronge.. hese just wronge.. listen to me
he left you didnt he?? so why take him backk
he hurt you and if he really cared about you then he woldnt forget you just like that and he wouldnt take things so easily and leave you so fast that showws that he never accually loved you if he accuall had true feelings for you then he would have never ever left you and never have forgotton you so quickly show him that your not weak and you accually have a personality and that you accually have a life dont let him come running back to you and you just accepting it have some dignity im sure that its hard for you to let go believe me i have a strong like for somone right now and its so hard i understand but dont take him back take him back if he cocmes bak but dont like forgive him right away... DONT ..you have to feel that hese accualy sorry for what he has done to you and that your not his backplan.. okay
hope i helped if you have anymore questions you can ask me
and remeber dont let him take control
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Awwww I'm soooo sorry. =[ I know how much that hurts. And I know this isn't what you want to hear, but... I think you need to forget about him and try to move on. The truth is, if he loved you, he would want to be with you and no one else.
Unfortunately, his family isn't doing you any favors by saying what they're saying to you. They obviously love you, and just like you, they hope he will come back to you. And sure, there's always that possibility that he will. But what if he doesn't? Do you really want to waste your time and emotions waiting and hoping for something that might not happen? No. Because somewhere out there is a guy who WILL love you and will be so crazy about you that he will never want to let you go. And you're not going to find him if you're sitting around waiting for someone who may or may not come back. Someone who cares so little for you that he won't even call or talk to you when he knows you're hurting.
You have a lot to offer and a lot of love to give, and you deserve someone who will see what an awesome girl you are and will never do anything that would hurt you.
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wow, im sorry about whats happening it has to be very hard on you.
if you love him your feelings wont just go away. you have to work at it and try you hardest to make them go away. memories no matter what are gonna be memories and never go away as fast as your feelings. but love is love and something very confusing. im sure hes just tired and needs something new. but if you guys have had so many great memories then im sure he isnt forget-ing about them just like you arent. even for most guys they cant get over a girl that fast and forget memories. unless you did something that hurt him enoughh that makes him want to have nothing to do with you. his family is for the most part right. he prob. still likes you and you seem like a extremly smart, pretty, awesome girl for their son. i would just wait and see if the girl he is going out with falls apart at all. and then i would talk to him. tell him how much you miss him.
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Respectfully ignore his family's good intentioned meddling and stop listening to their opinions.
He wasn't 'confused'. He was cruel, simple minded, foolish and stupid. Cry it out and try to move on with your life, just like any other dumped girl would.
Don't let his family insist that you keep holding on for their no-good son. Of course they want you to be with him! He is their family and they want what is best for him, not necessarily what is best for you! A relationship takes way more then just supportive family though, it takes a commitment and sense of self this guy is clearly lacking.
His family might be good enough for you, but he isn't. Seriously, dumping you and falling 'in love' with someone else with in a week is not a forgivable offense or a bump in the road that you two can just work pass. It’s not like he slipped up and made a mistake. What he did is a deal breaker. There is no going back to happiness with this guy. He showed a lack of emotional maturity that makes any mature relationship with that boy impossible.
Don't torture yourself, don't let him torture you, and don't let his family prolong you pain. Stop speaking to them all for a while. Take the time alone that you need to get him out of your mind and heart.
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