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My boyfriend who I loved just broke up with me.
But the thing is he broke up with me for no good reason. He told my best friend that he thought it was time. But I don't really understand that. We had an amazing date like 3 days ago, and we both had a ton of fun, and he seemed like everything was normal, he kept kissing me and all that normal stuff. But just last night he broke up with me. But the thing is we have only been going out for two months and in his grade (he's older) apparently it's not cool for a guy to be in a relationship for more then 2 months. My friend also asked him if I did anything wrong, and my ex told her to tell me that I didn't do anything wrong. He really hurt me, and i haven't stopped crying. I don't know what to do. I don't think I ever want to date someone again. I only want the guy that broke up with me, and I believe I always will.
Can you explain to me why he broke up with me?? And what I can to do stop feeling so lousy??
HELP!!!
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No one can ever explain why guys do what they do. If I could then I would be richer than Bill Gates. But I can tell you that if he goes by what his friends say is "uncool" and just ups and breaks up with you then he is not worth it. Breaking up is always hard and the first thing you need to do is take a whole day to yourself. Rent your favorite movies and lounge around all day eating your favorite junk foods. Then you need to plan a day with your friends and hang with them all day without talking about relationships. Then you need to write down everything you liked and disliked about your ex. After you have everything written down rip the paper up and never read it again. Eventually you will want to date again even though it seems like the world is coming to an end right now. It is good to vent to people about how you miss him but do it for only two days max. After the two days are up you are not to mention that you miss him ever again. Before you know it you will feel so much better and may even start to look for a new guy but dont date him right away. Start by being friends then slowly break into the dating period. You want to give yourself enough time to heal otherwise you will soon find yourself picking out everything that your new guy does wrong and compare him to your ex. That will drive your new guy away and will leave you with more pain.
~AdviceGirl123
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Either like you said that because some people think it's not cool for a guy to be in a relationship more than two months or he likes some other girl.If I were you I forget about him he broke up with you for something that isn't your fault at all,he didn't even had the odesity to even give you an explanation!Like I told ohters fight the feelings you have for him,go on with your life,learn to live without him,and don't make the same mistake by trying to get back with him because he'll hurt you again.
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hun dont worry about the guy
he is a jerk for breaking up with a nice girl like you so go and tell him that he is a big jerk lol u know i cant say the other word but i think you know what i mean so hun go and enjoy yourself and stop crying k ttyl
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Honestly honey, no one here can explain to you why he let you do. Perhaps he had a very sudden change of heart. Or he'd been thinking of doing it for a while but really didn't want to hurt you.
I know you are going through a very hard time at the moment. Trust me, you WILL get over this within time. I say this a lot but it's really true;
Time heals everything.
It can take weeks or months. Everyone is different. but sooner or later, you will be able to look back and be happy for the times you shared together.
and when someone else comes into your life who you like, you will be ready for the process to start over again.
It's trial and error.
Most people have been through this and can understand your pain.
All you can do is let it all out. Cry to your friends, get everything off your chest. That is what you are there for. Then start to hang out with them to take your mind off him. Try not to be alone for too much. Listen to music that makes you happy. Keep yourself occupied - call up your friends, even tidy your room! Every little helps.
It's best if you do not try to contact your ex at all. Not in person, online, anywhere. It will only make it harder on you.
Trust me, you WILL feel better soon. Keep your head up high.
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