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If you cut does that mean your emo? Like the stereotypical type? I'm in 9th grade and I've cut since 8th grade. Not all the time but I do when something goes wrong and I break down. I'm only 14 and none of my family has ever found out about it. Only some of my friends saw. What am I supposed to do? I'm usually unhappy and stuff and I hate it at home. But I can handle everything better at school than at home although I hate school too. I've thought I needed help a few months ago because of what I've thought but didn't really think I'd ever do it. I know this might have been stupid but I really don't know what to do anymore. Help?

cutting urself does not mean ur emo. it means u need to tell.. im sorry i dont like when people cut themselfs. i think it is wrong.. please stop.. love yah

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Okay so it was April Fools...keep that in mind.

My mom is always pressuring my sister and I about losing weight...and always calling us fat and she makes us feel horrible. We're not over weight either. I'm 5'4 and I weigh 147, and she's 5'8 and she weighs 160.

It was April first and my sister said she wanted me to walk to walmart with her so she could steal some diet pills. I thought it was an April fools joke. We would walk over there go to the diet isle and she would say April fools.

So we got to walmart and walked over to where all the diet pills are. And she picked them up and I asked her what she was doing. She said "I told you" and she walked away. There was security cameras there...you could see youself in them.

So she walked away and I followed her and I tryed to get her to admit it was an April Fools joke but it wasn't...it really wasn't. She went to the dressing room, took the pills out, put them in her pocket and put the bottle back where it belonged. I couldn't stop her...and I couldn't tell anyone...she's my sister...I tryed to convince her not to.

(There are security cameras and telivisions in every isle)

Anyway we got out of walmart and I guess no one saw...but I'm freaking out. I know the security cameras got all that footage because we could see ourselves on the screen. It's been a week since then, what are the chances of getting caught...

I really did get dragged into this...I've never done anything like this before and I never want to as long as I live. What do you guys think the chances are we get caught? I'm really worried.

hunn ur not going to get caught. its been awhile so dont worry about it.,i also suggest dont go to walmart anymore and tell ur sister to not steal anything

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I won't bore you with the whole story. Instead, I'll tell you that:

*We went out before. But it wasn't "officially" a date. We went out for coffee, and the next week went out for dinner and a movie. He paid for everything.*

*He works ALL the time (till the wee hours of the morning.) So during the week our main form of communication is texting. However, he doesn't usually initiate the text conversations.

* I don't see him more than once or twice every two weeks because he's so busy.*

*When we do go out, there is lots of good chemistry, eye contact and body language. However, this has been going on for at least a month and he hasn't made a move.*

*He doesn't mention other girls he likes or might be seeing.*



How can I tell if he likes me, or if he's just being friendly?

hey hun.... he could like u.... he is always busy.... but i honestly think he likes u.... hope u have fun..... nice talking to ya

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I am a girl, and my friend (Lets call her Ashleigh) is acting strange. i.e, not eating very much, being unusually quiet, saying things that dont make sense, and not being herself, oh and possibly lying. Something just didnt feel right when she claimed that she was just missing her dad, (Who she said died when she was four) It just doesnt add up. Were in 8th grade, and she doesnt have a boyfriend.

hey i know ur worried about her but she is probally telling the truth hunnn u should sit down with her and ask her whats the matter so i hope i helped ttyl

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ahh okay, this problem is REALLY embaressing but i don't know what to do. I just started dating this guy and i really really like him. He is hilarious and makes me laugh constantly but the problem is, im realizing that when i laugh really hard, i fart. haha yea i know it's bad it's happened like 5 times and i know it bothers him. What can i do to make me less... gassy?

i don't relly eat greasy foods or anything so i don't know what it could be =/

hahahahah funny lol. all i have to say is get used to the guy. go to the doctors to get medication

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Ok does anyone know what that means? I see that written at random places at my school and I heard that it has something to do with Emos. Well I'm Emo and don't get it. Anyone care to explain it?

emo means you like skulls and emo also deals with cutting

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Im a 13 year old girl and idk what else to put on it.. I already asked for movies, guitar hero 2 (or 3), an ipod, a cell phone, chocolate, a Michael Kors bag, a prepaid credit card, and yeah thats it. but are there other cool things out that i could add to the list? im aiming for 10 things on my list and so far I have 8. all suggestions are welcome. but well we're not the most richest family on the block so keep price in mind. and im like.. well for my tastes, im pretty much everything. im girly, a tomboy, sporty, preppy, artistic, and i like learning new things. um for some more ideas of what ideas you can come up with, i like crazy or like funny sentimental gifts.. uh stuff like that i guess. they dont need to have a purpose if they're just cute or whatever is what i mean tho i generally like things i can use. thanks for the help and happy hanukah + other holidays coming up.

hey, not to be mean to u, the things you asked are very expensive. the ipod the cell phone and a prepaid phone wow. maybe ask for cds . i hoped i helped merry christmas

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A few weeks ago I saw a girl with a pretty big bag/purse that had navy and white horizontal stripes on it. It looked worn (like it was supposed to be that). I'm pretty sure it was a dooney and bourke bag, but I am not totally sure.
I can not find it anywhere online though. Does anyone know where I can find this bag or another like it?

hey did u go to google than to images

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name me some sad songs =]

holes in the floor of heaven
allysa les
concret angel
gods will

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F/15

Every since the begining of this school year I've been feeling really depressed. There are a lot of different reasons why. First of all, I dont have many friends. I have one close friend who I hang out with everyday, but sometimes she blows me off, which is understandable, to hang out with other people, and I wonder the halls alone, feeling like an idiot, wishing I were at home. I live in a small town and go to a small school so I already know everybody and its hard to make new friends when you're a sophmore in high school and everybody is separated by "levels of coolness".

Last year, life was great. I was a freshmen and I was dating a junior, who I fell for. We broke up after about 4 months and we pretty much lost all contact. Thats what hit me the hardest. I still love him but hes in love with his new girlfriend. I keep thinkin that I'll never find another guy because I've been single for months and everyday I tell myself things will get better but they never do.

I hate waking up everyday knowing that it will just be another sad, pathetic repeat of what happened the day before. I want out of this life. I want to drop out of school. Or move. Or die. I dont care anymore. Ive never felt like this before and Im really starting to scare myself. I keep thinking about killing myself. I've thought about it a couple times before but I always knew in the back of my mind that I would never do it. Now im not so sure.

Usually I would talk to someone about how im feeling to try to work things out but i have nobody to talk to. asking random people for advice on the internet is pointless too....i dont even know why im doing it. I just want to die. I want to stop hurting inside. there are so many other things going on in my life that i cant even explain on here because I dont want to tell anybody. I hate it so much.

please..........does anybody have any good advice. nothing like "try to make more friends" or "you'll get a new boyfriend, just put yourself out there" i need to hear something real.

hun i feel like that all the time im in school or on the bus and i get called squints and a sped and it makes xme want to do bad thing s but i learned that i want to live on earth so im tellin you this dont get mad but dont even talk with the crush you went out with. i dont have friends or a boyfriend and i am sad but life is short live the fullness hoped i help and dont consider suicide that is just a scary subject to even talk about you dont want to die. trust me its going to get better hopes i helped
FEEL BETTER

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the most embarassing thing ever happened in school today. i got my period in school, not soo bad it happens to lots of girls. but its worse. i was wearing a SKIRT and I had a heavy flow and there was blood on the chair when i got up....i can't even believe that happened because i dont know how im EVER going to live that down. the kids in my school are so mean/immature, it's ridiculous. i'm a junior in high school, by the way. i know people are going to talk and make fun of me...what do i do?! has this ever happened to anyone else :[

yah it happened to me but hun dont worry about it tell them that everygirl does it and that boys should not care or laugh with them or tell them to back off or make fun at them sorry it happened but there is nothing you can do sorry

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wat should i be?
13/f
im no good girl
but im not a slut to jus wear fish nexts & a bra

like any good ideas that arent kiddish or slutty?

hey you can be a zombie bride or a vampire queen

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Lice is going around my school. What can I do to prevent getting it and how long to lice live when they aren't in hair?

put lots of hair spray and gel in your hair and put it up and then u should not get lice trust me i did it

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okay,
i like an 18-soon-to-be-19-year-old.
:/
i am unfortunately a 13-about-to-be-14-year-old.
i was wondering the legal age of DATING him in TEXAS would be,
please?
thanks in advance.

hey i think you would not get in trouble for seing him but he might because you are underage nice talking to u

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I am tremendously frustrated with trying to understand school. Whenver I get ahead in one part of school I fall behind in another. I have tried organise myself and I lose my organiser. I might leave myself a note and I forget where the note is and what was on it. All that compounds on sports and clubs. I would like to know how other people organise their life. Can anyone help me?

hey you should get tested to see if your learning disiabled good luck have a nice day

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Does any1 know where i can get some PLAIN white knee high socks? I need them for my halloween costume (school girl)i want them 2 go a little ABOVE my knee!!
plez & thank you!

hey go to walmart or kmart they must have your knee highs there

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I think I am falling for this guy, i realllly like him. But he has a girlfriend. He just started going to my school today, so I get to see him very often now.
I dont know where to start.
He has a girlfriend, but I am falling so hard for him.
He is suppppppppper sweet, he's attractive, i love his personality. He's like perfect.
idk what to do.
help

hey sorry to say this but fall for a single guy and not one who has a girlfriend. look for a guy and dont worry for the one that has a girlfriend ok talk to ya later

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I think I am falling for this guy, i realllly like him. But he has a girlfriend. He just started going to my school today, so I get to see him very often now.
I dont know where to start.
He has a girlfriend, but I am falling so hard for him.
He is suppppppppper sweet, he's attractive, i love his personality. He's like perfect.
idk what to do.
help

hey sorry to say this but fall for a single guy and not one who has a girlfriend. look for a guy and dont worry for the one that has a girlfriend ok talk to ya later

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I like this girl and she knows but all my friends think she is to tall for me cause im 5 ft and shes like 5ft 7 i dnt know what to do she likes me too should i ask her out.

omg you should totally ask her out and dont worry about your friends kk love is ur own choice

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whats the easiest and most useful way to get rid of stage fright?

go on the stage when no one is there or take a friend and do a play and then try it with more people and then you shouldnt be stage frightening so try it trust me it works

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