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me and my sis had a big fight
we had a big fight and she wont forgive me i think she hates me WHAT DO I DO?
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Don't immediately come up to her and start apologizing like crazy. 'omg omg i'm soo sorry please talk to me' because you'll come off as annoying. Leave her alone for a few hours, and do things as you usually would. If she approaches you and wants to talk about it, then listen, and accept her apology (if she apologizes), if she doesn't, then pull her aside and ask if you can talk to her for a moment. Explain to her that you are sorry about what happened. She will forgive you sooner or later, because after all; she is your sister.
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My older sister and I havent gotten in some big fights. The good thing is that you apoligized and although shes not ready to forgive you she knows your sorry. The thing with sisters is that you can never stay mad forever. Your family and need to be there for eachother. Just give dont talk to her and let her come around, and when she does dont give her crap like "well its about time" . It'd be a good thing if you didnt even bring it up at all. Hope that helped. And Good Luck :)
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Since you two just had this fight, give it some time. When you first get into a fight with someone, you need your space and time to think and you're going to be angry for a little while. So I would wait a day or two, and then try to talk to her about it, in a calm manor. I'm sure everything will be alright, sisters get in arguments and get over them all the time. I don't think you have anything to worry about. =)
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Give her some space...you just got in a fight...sure she might seem upset now...but trust me...she'll come around...and it's not the end of the world...take a deep breath...go to sleep and give her some time alone...I promise everything will be fine...and she doesn't hate you.
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THE WORLD WILL NOT EXPLODE.
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Relaxxxx. Freaking about it / losing sleep wont help AT ALL. Take a deep breath. If shes ignoring you, dont talk to her for a while. I promise, every fight works itself out after a while. (except biiiigg things, like killing someone o.0)
She doesnt hate you ethier. Shes just mad at whatever you did.
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