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we had a big fight and she wont forgive me i think she hates me WHAT DO I DO?



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Sad and Concerened

THE WORLD WILL NOT EXPLODE.

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Relaxxxx. Freaking about it / losing sleep wont help AT ALL. Take a deep breath. If shes ignoring you, dont talk to her for a while. I promise, every fight works itself out after a while. (except biiiigg things, like killing someone o.0)
She doesnt hate you ethier. Shes just mad at whatever you did.

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15/f

both of my best friends feel as though they've been replaced with my new boyfriend. it sucks so much... especially because one of them is being a total hypocrite about it. she also had a new boyfriend before i did and she's head over heels for him. they spend all their time together. everything sucks and the only thing i can do is cut. i wish it wasn't like this. please help.

if they feel that way then put down your razor and talk things over with them.

what exactly is cutting going to solve?
I can tell you what it WONT solve:
1. Reparing friendships
2. Helping you.
3. Helping your problem.

Obviously one of two things are happening:
1. Your friends are jealous.
2. Your friends REALLY dont feel like youre spending time with them.

Friends ALWAYS come first so if they really dont feel like your giving them enough attention then hang out with them a little more than your boyfriend for now.

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about a week before my period i started not feeling the greatest, i can still live a normal life but i ust dont feel 100%, im also getting a lot of clear vaginal discharge, a lot. is this all like normal? and is this like pms or something different

WELCOME TO WOMENHOOD!

i hate it too, dont worry. -.-

just kidding. well. not really.

but not feeling 100% is totally normal, its actually a rare occurance that i feel 100% a week before im due. The vaginal discharge is simply a way for your body to prepare itself for the period (just clearing out some extra things.)
hope that helps!

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im 15 and im gonna be a freshman and i dont really know what i want to wear. i dont want to wear a skirt. i think i wanna wear like skinny jeans, or jean capris. i'm kinda preppy i guess, i shop at like abercromnbie, a little hollister, urban behavior, forever 21, macys.

haha

wear what you want. Honestly, i just started high school, and its a LOT more laid back. So dont freak, wear something comfortable that youre happy with.

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how do i stay out of trouble?

stay away from bad friends, bad decisions, bad influences.

make right choices, be a leader not a follower.

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