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I'm in love
I really like this guy in my school and I told my BFF and she promised to keep its secret but the next day she told another girl and now to make it worse that girl went up to this certain boy and told him that I like him, and before I could hang out with him and be fine but now I get really embaresed my friends keep telling me to ask him out but I know he wouldnt go out with me because I'm not very pretty:(, and I am kinda shy but I am still madly in love with him and I havent even seen him since May 26, what should I do!
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Life is about taking chances. I know that there is a lot at stake, but if you feel that deeply about him let him know. All he can do is say no. I want to impress upon you the idea of having confidence in yourself. Guys can detect when a girl has low self-esteem and either will take advantage or stay away. If you want to be able to get the guy, have confidence in yourself; it's very attractive!
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he got the message didnt he?ok now...dont run after him anymore!if he KNOWS you like him...and hes interested...hell come up to you!if he doesnt comee up to you...then hes obviously not interested so save your self the heartbreak!as for your so called "bff" you should NOT let that go!!confront her and yell at her for what she did!what kind of bff goes off telling her bffs secret???
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He knows you like him, so you need to take a chance & ask him out! If you don't want to ask him out just yet, ask him to hang out with you & just chill. If things go well, and he seems interested, continue to go further with the relationship. And honestly, you may not think you're pretty, but he might, and you never know until you ask. Besides, looks don't make you pretty sweetheart, your personality does.
Take a chance & ask this guy out. If he says yes, then you know he was interested all along & you had nothing to worry about. If he says no, then don't beat yourself up over it. It's his loss. Good luck; let me know how things go!
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First, tell your friends that what they did was so not cool.
Second, never say that your not pretty, I don't know what you look like, true, But, people are always pretty even if they think they aren't. If they say they aren't then they are the prettiest.
Third, if you love him then there should be no stopping you, take a chance thats what life is all about.
Hope this helps, and GOOD LUCK!
AlyssaBT4T
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So he knows you like him?
What have you got to lose by telling him yourself. Ask him out. Maybe you'll be surprised :)
If he is a decent guy, and you really dont think you look that pretty, then maybe he won't care. If he knows you, then he will go on that rather than appearence. Thats what it boils down to in the end.
Decent guys can't stay with girls whose personalities they don't like.
So take the shot :) Ask him out. If he doesn't return the feelings, then you haven't lost anything.
Good luck with whatever you choose to do :)
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