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mean girls
there are these girls at my school and from what happened last year i don't really want to go back to school and see them. they are mean and rude to me and my friends people call them ##### and the terrors. (i don't want to put the name for my safety) they make fun of what we wear then they get soemthing exactly like it and wear it and tell us we don't have enough class as they do. so what should i do? should i try to get back at them? should i gossip about them?
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Woah, I was about to ask a question pretty similar to this.
Alright, I know EXACTLY what you`re going through. Whatever you do -- don`t gossip about them. PLEASE, please, p-l-e-a-s-e don`t! It`ll make things way worse than they already are, trust me on that. Don`t try to get back at them -- I know that`s the one thing that you don`t want to hear. When everyone would tell me that, I would just walk out of the room wondering why they couldn`t give me normal advice. But trust me, it`s exactly what you need to do. I even go to the point where I asked my mom if I could be homeschooled...she laughed & said no. So caring, right?
I saw the girl who was being mean to me yesterday & you wanna know how she greeted me? She yelled, "Woah! Could you get any uglier?" She wore the same shirt today. Hah, I decided to try everyone`s advice. I smiled & said, "Hey. I know, I thought nobody would notice! I love your shirt though. It`s so cute! I hope you had a good summer. Well, I gotta go." I looked at her out of the corner of my eye & she looked so confused. Haha, so with every mean thing they say to you, say something nice back. You can`t insult a compliment, right? =]
Good luck!
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"When you fight fire with fire, you just get burnt"
- Hannah Montana(I know, pretty cool:]).
Do not do anything, it will just add fuel to the fire. Chances are, if you do not do anything, they will get bored and stop. Do not gossip about them, or it will just come back and bite you in the butt:]. Let it be, and just be yourself- dont listen to them.
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Don't do anything. It'll just make them come after you ten times worse. Be the bigger person, and just keep it to yourself. Because if you do gossip and say mean things, you'll be just like them. Chances are they'll give up on you after they see it dosen't bother you.
So just don't say anything, and when they say stuff, either ignore it, or say something like "Oh, thanks! I love your outfit, too!" and walk away.
Trust me, I've been down this road many times.
Good Luck! =]
-Laura. (15-f)
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It looks like these girl think they are so it !! When they just look like there jeauls of u and are trying to make them self look big..!! I think you should go back to school and face them they wil soon get tired of it all and one day they will find out how it feels to be bullyed.. and if it carryes go and tell someone ..!!
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hey girl,
you shouldn't gossip about them and you shouldn't even bother to look at them. You don't want to stoop to there level of bitch. Girls can be mean sometimes and its not because they are better then anyone its because they are insecure. They like to make people they are threatened by be scared of them. You need to just ignore the pettiness your way better then that. School can be a blast so dont let your years be ruined by some stuck up wannabe divas. Be yourself and they have a problem with it then whatever. Who makes the rules of what is cool and what isn't? Definetly not them. If they have a problem with you its because they have a problem with themselves. Girl just dont even let it get to you. Have a good year. good luck!
Love<3 Me
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i know they might make fun of you, but... try just telling someone. if they still to bad things try to just ignore them or tell them it's not cool to make fun of people's clothes, just because they might be diferent. hey, they might even be jealous of you. and if they say that you are a taddeltale or something like taht, just say sorry, i was standing up for myself and my friends.
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