my name is rachel and my friends say that i am a really good advice giver. you can ask me anything. it can be reallly long or it can be really short. i will try to help you. i won't make fun of you no matter what your problem is, so you don't have to feel insecure. you can ask me anything for advice, and if you don't like me, i don't care. i am just trying to help people out.
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15/f. i have a big crush on this guy named Tim. well we don't have any classes together but we still talk at lunch, on AIM, and on myspace. well i was on his top 8 on myspace for a while. then we both decided to try out for the play so we have been talking a lot about that. like about how we were nervous for the play audition and stuff. then we signed up for auditions next to each other and we hung out before our turns came. ok then after we both auditioned we talked for a long time and practiced our lines for the acting auditions for monday. we picked each other to be partners for the auditions.
so a lot of people think that i like him and someone even told him that she heard a rumor that we were dating. well i wish all of this was true! but then when we were practicing our lines this other girl who was standing there just randomly blurted out "Tim, why don't you just ask Sarah out?" (i'm sarah by the way). and he just said a joke about it and it all ended. but i really thought he liked me until now i'm not sure because i'm out of his top 8 and he hasn't IMed me. do you think he got scared or nervous and backed off?
plus how can i get him to like me without actually telling him? plus i can't tell my friends that i like him or else they will tell him. i'm so confused here..any advice will be greatly appreciated! (link)
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you could always IM Tim if he ever gets on and ask him really what he meant when he said that. and if he really meant it. it might be hard, but it could be worth it. or if he doesn't answer you, instead of commenting on his myspace on why he said that and if he really meant that, just make a private message to him so no one see's what you say. he might just not want everyone to know that he likes you. almost like every crush. you could get him to like you by just being yourself. ask what he likes to do, or stuff about him. then you could learn about hat stuff and talk about it to him.
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okay, so this is pretty long but please dont let that stop you from helping me.
at the begining of the school year i dated this guy i will call billy. we dated on and off about 3 times. i never really liked him like i should have, because in the back of my mind i had feelings for this other guy "jim". you see i am 5 feet and he is 6"2' so we have a huge height difference but we are the same age. i never really liked billy, i just liked the fact that he liked me. he would always get mad at me though and make me feel bad about myself.
about 4 months ago, i startred to really really like jim. i would seiously do anything for him and still will. but we went to a dance and jim danced with me [because my firend asked him to]. i was really happy though. it made billy super angry and he was threatening jim and was saying things like dont talk to her. but he was also jim wont talk to me because he doesnt like me in that sort of way.
i really want to date jim id give anything, the problem is he's too popular and pretty much off limits but ill try anything and i need lots of different opinions THANKS! (link)
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you could always tell "billy" that you don't really like him, and tell him you might ask someone else out when you guys were over. tell him you guys can still be friends, [ if you want to be ] and you could just ask "jim" out. if he syas no, just say, well, thanks and ask if you guys could maybe hang out as like friends. if poeple spread rmors like "that girl ask that really popular guy out". you could just tell them you guys are freinds and your cool with him. and if they think your a freak tell them i just like him and wanted to see if he could hangout sometimes. then they might understand.
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I could really use some pictures of cool, shoulder-skimming, shaggy haircuts. I need bangs too, which would look good with my hair up. My hair is sort of thick, but shaggy layers could thin it out. Can anyone help? (link)
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wow. you almost have the same problem that i did. you should probably get layers if you want bangs. you can get short bangs or sweep bangs. you can get them on both side or eithr sides. and you could comsider a shorter cut maybe to the neck or shoulder. you can have your hair curl out or then ends and have it very straight which makes it looks thinner. whatever floats your boat.
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there are these girls at my school and from what happened last year i don't really want to go back to school and see them. they are mean and rude to me and my friends people call them ##### and the terrors. (i don't want to put the name for my safety) they make fun of what we wear then they get soemthing exactly like it and wear it and tell us we don't have enough class as they do. so what should i do? should i try to get back at them? should i gossip about them? (link)
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i know they might make fun of you, but... try just telling someone. if they still to bad things try to just ignore them or tell them it's not cool to make fun of people's clothes, just because they might be diferent. hey, they might even be jealous of you. and if they say that you are a taddeltale or something like taht, just say sorry, i was standing up for myself and my friends.
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I need to lose weight,
pretty fast .
i mean about 30 pounds .
im 14/f and about 170 pounds 5'6''
yeah HUGE i know .
any tips or websites or specific plans ?
HELPPPP !!!!!!!
id like to lose some before school starts . (link)
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try not to eat a lot of junk food. excercise daily for about 60 minutes or more. eat more fruits and vegetables. and drink less sugary drinks like pop and sports drinks. drink a lot of water. i lost a lot of weight by eating less and excercsing more. but don't not eat at all. because your body will hang to what it already has. it needs energy everday, so try to eat a good breakfast. if there are some days that you don't have time, try to have something healthy and something that will give you energy for the rest of the day. and try out some new sports for after school or something. that night help.
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