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15/f. i have a big crush on this guy named Tim. well we don't have any classes together but we still talk at lunch, on AIM, and on myspace. well i was on his top 8 on myspace for a while. then we both decided to try out for the play so we have been talking a lot about that. like about how we were nervous for the play audition and stuff. then we signed up for auditions next to each other and we hung out before our turns came. ok then after we both auditioned we talked for a long time and practiced our lines for the acting auditions for monday. we picked each other to be partners for the auditions.
so a lot of people think that i like him and someone even told him that she heard a rumor that we were dating. well i wish all of this was true! but then when we were practicing our lines this other girl who was standing there just randomly blurted out "Tim, why don't you just ask Sarah out?" (i'm sarah by the way). and he just said a joke about it and it all ended. but i really thought he liked me until now i'm not sure because i'm out of his top 8 and he hasn't IMed me. do you think he got scared or nervous and backed off?
plus how can i get him to like me without actually telling him? plus i can't tell my friends that i like him or else they will tell him. i'm so confused here..any advice will be greatly appreciated!
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you could always IM Tim if he ever gets on and ask him really what he meant when he said that. and if he really meant it. it might be hard, but it could be worth it. or if he doesn't answer you, instead of commenting on his myspace on why he said that and if he really meant that, just make a private message to him so no one see's what you say. he might just not want everyone to know that he likes you. almost like every crush. you could get him to like you by just being yourself. ask what he likes to do, or stuff about him. then you could learn about hat stuff and talk about it to him.
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Haha. I am almost posotive he did get scared and back off. Although, whether it was because he liked you and didn't want you to know, or it was because he didn't think of you that way and was afraid it might interfere with your friendship, I'm not sure. Guys are just like that. The only thing you can do is try to talk to him about it. I tell girls this alot about guys because it is honestly the only way to figure it out. It seems dumb, and sometimes it might not work, but if you try asking him, whether on the phone, in person, through a note, or even online...Whatever you are more comfortable with, he may give you an answer. And usually if they do not give you a straight answer, it is because they are hiding their feelings, either because they don't want you to know they have feelings for you, or because they don't feel that way about you and don't want to hurt your feelings. Tell him how you feel...And let him know that if he doesn't feel that way you are still willing to be friends. People change all the time, and if you continue being just friends for now, in time, he may come to like you, or you may realize he is a better friend than he would be a boyfriend, and lose your feelings for him and stay friends. It all depends on the way people change. If you need advice on what to say to him, or on what he responded with, you can always email me... (And trust me when I say, I've just about heard it all when it comes to these kinds of guy troubles.)
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