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help with a girl
i went to school with this girl in elementary
we met up, dated-and broke up
i just noticed now...that i wasn't being myself with her and don't know what to do
how can i get her to like me?
or "attract her"
what do girls like?
or find attracting=\?
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well mainly just be yourself, because if you wont you would end up with the wrong girl.
Most girls like guys that can make them smile, laugh, and just feel comfortable around guys and not feel like they have to be someone else. Also looking into the girls eyes can totally get a girls attention. But try not to look at her straight, and tense, and not for a long time or that might make her feel really uncomfortable.
and about the girl that you used to be with and then broke up with, i think you to should start off fresh and this time be yourself and give that a chance
good luck and hope i helped:]
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Well, just be yourself around her. Duh. lol
Girls like when you make her feel special. They love it when you do those little things no one else has ever done for her. Like, write little notes and stick them in her notebook at school when she isnt looking. Or get her a rose and give it to her in front of your friends.
My ex used to come up to me and wrap his arms around me from behind and whisper sweet little things into my ears. Like "you look beautiful" or something like that. Girls like it when you call them beautiful, rather than hot or something like that.
Be sweet. And yourself.
Good luck.
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Well, Personally i like a guy who can be himself, make me laugh, be outgoing and can talk to me no matter what. compliment the girl and alwaays make her feel loved.
good luck
Dani (danielle)
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Hello, this question was asked recently, so I'll copy & paste my answer:
"Personally, I love a guy who makes me laugh. Any guy who makes me laugh, and compliments me is a winner in my book. But not only that, I also like guys who are smart. They kind of go together for me. Like if you're dumb, it shows when you try to make me laugh. Does that make sense?
Anyways, guys who isn't ashamed (spelling?) of me. I can't think of a better way to word it. But a guy, who holds my hand when we go out. A guy who lets me rest my head on his shoulder. And my last boyfriend used to tickle me (even though I hate it). But it was ok when he did it.
I like to see guys act the same around their friends and my friends. I also like to see a guy (obviously) not hitting on other girls if we're together or he told me he's interested.
Seeing guys read or write is cute to. Artisitc things in general, I guess, will attract girls.
One thing that's an automatic NO for me, is a guy whose really self centered. A guy whose like, "Me, me, me, me" I hate that."
I hope this helps =]
-Laura. (15-f)
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Hey!
I was once the girl in this situation so it would be perfect for me to help you out. The girl feels really bad about what happened. She knows you wern't being yourself and that's probably why you guys broke up. Try telling her how you feel and tell her your sorry. Then tell her you know you wern't being yourself amd that she completes the real you. Then ask her if she wants to start all over again. Tell me what happens!
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I would say talk to her, be yourself, ask her 'you alright?' if you see her on her own, or maybe struggling, try to help her out. most girls like a guy not just for their looks, but also for their kind-hearted personality, and maybe a little bit of brain too.
but you dont need to be shy infront of her, she's only human. start with eye-contact, so before you do go up and talk to her, you know the signal is green and safe for you to go ahead.
Simply just be nice to her, and friendly, and after a while if you think things are good now, try asking her out again, and i hope it works out this time, so try not to make the mistakes you may have made before. good luck.
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when you see her make sure your with people. don't be by yourself because then she'll think your a loner and no one like you so if no one likes you why should she? also, don't be shy. if you like her, talk to her. i hope i helped and best of luck!
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Confidence. Make sure you're loaded with it. Even if you end up acting like an asshole. Unfortunatly MANY girls are attracted to that.
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