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whats going on with me and my boyfriend?
i've been going out with my boyfriend for three months. My parents don't approve of his family though so if i wanted to go to his house i'd lie to my own parents about where i was going and then sneak over to his house. Last time i went there i felt so guilty i felt i was gonna be sick. And lately whenever i talk to him i get really irritated and grumpy. Does anyone know what's going on with me?
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I think your right - it might just be your guilt. Speak to your parents, tell them that you want to be with your boyfriend and that they have nothing to worry about. Maybe you should invite your boyfriend over to a dinner with your parents so they can get to know him better.
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It's kinda hard to explain so try your best to keep up with me. You know you like him and as u said you feel guilty about lieing to your parents. Try explaining to your parents that he your boyfriend is not like the rest of his family. Just to let you know the way your family feels about your boyfriends family is the reason your getting angry with your own boyfriend so you can't fix anything until you explain to your parents.
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Well, as you said, you're feeling really guilty about being dishonest with your parents. And this guilt is starting to affect the way you feel about your boyfriend. You don't like lying to your parents, but in order to be with him, you have to lie... and of course that's going to make you irritable and grumpy. It's also possible that in some part of your mind, you're wondering if your parents might be right... and that's making you uncomfortable around him.
If you really like this guy, and if you think your parents have misjudged him, then you need to talk to your parents about it. Ask them to give your boyfriend a chance, to get to know him better, before they make a judgement on him. They still might not want you going to his house, but maybe they'll let him come over to your place, or let you get together with him someplace else.
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This happens to me sometimes when i talk to my boyfriend. Sometimes when i talk to him or i'm with him i just get frustrated and mad at him for no reason.
This is happening to you because your stressed out. Your feeling guilty for lying to your parents and your probably blaming part of that on your boyfriend but subconsiously dont want to admit it.
Also, it could be PMS.
Tell your boyfriend you just need afew days to yourself to relax. Spend those days doing things you like or just bummin' around the house sleeping and watching tv.
If you keep feeling guilty, the only way to cure that is to tell your parents. They aren't going to hate you. You will probably be grounded for a while and they might not trust you for a bit but in time they will trust you again.
Love, xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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That time of month? Tell your parents that you are growing up and that you have the right to date boys, and just because someone comes from a "bad family" doesn't mean he's a bad kid.
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