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I cant really get pass this one, i need boyfriend advice.
Alright, me and my boy have been together a year + a week or two. Like three days ago, i broke up with him. He was suppose to hangout with me, not, lets call her "tamms". Tamms is one of my bestfriends, as well as his. They didn't do anything together though. The reason was he was suppose to spend the day with me, not her. It's a stupid reason because this has happend before but this time I really got mad cause i cancelled plans for the boyfriend. I always get jealous when he talks to other girls, [we have alot of girls in our neighborhood, boyfriend lives three blocks away] I still love him, and i know he loves me. But if i cant contain my jealousy issue, i dont want to get back together with him. I've cheated on him once in the past and that was the worst mistake I ever made, but we got past that. Sorry it was long. Comments advice or opinons would be appreciated.
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Well just to let you know if hes hanging out with your best friend, best friends dont take other best friends' boyfriends so theres no reason to be jealous. If he really loves you he would knoe I can only be friends with THIS girl because I already have the love of my life in my hands so ask him out again and tell him youll try your hardest to not be jealous!
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Every girl now and again gets jelous when their man talks to other girls, even bestfriends. The fact was, he should have spent the day with you like you 2 had planned. If you really loved him then you should have given him another chance or talked to him about it asking him why he didn't show up and spent the day with another girl. It's suspicious that he would want to spend the day with her if he's already made plans with you.
If you still love this guy, then go after him. Tell him how you feel, about your jelousy, and he could take you back. Or, and as hard as it is, you can move on. This guy might still want to be with you and he might not. Give it a shot and if it doesn't work out, atleast you tried.
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My opinion, You have no right to feel jelous since you were the one who cheated on him. If you know he really loves you, he won't cheat on you.
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My comment is that you're a hypocrite. My advice is to stop being a hypocrite. What right do you have to be jealous of your boyfriend if you cheated on him? I know people make mistakes, but you continue to make them. First dishonesty, then insecurity, then you dump him? Sorry to say it, but he sounds much better off without you. I hope you take this lesson and this advice and learn something from it. Otherwise, you've wasted your time and the time of everyone around you including me.
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Why did you break up with him in the 1st place? I think that if you really love him you should ask him out again. If he loves you back he should say yes. sorry if that doesn't help. i could help more if i knew WHY you broke up with him.
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