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Thanks But..
yeah all this advice has helped.. But I can't meet up in the day with him because he is grounded. So Meeting at night is the only way I can see him and he is un grounded when i go on holiday and I want to see him before I go.. So What can I do?.
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Ah I see, now I see why you couldn't meet him before hand. Why not get him to come to yours? He will need to sneak out anyway to get out the house to meet you when you sneak out so why not him just walk to yours? It would be safer for you (which, no offence, should be his primary concern). Alternatively, I think one thing you can try is to visit him at his house instead. If his parents say he is grounded and can't see anyone then just say to them that you're going on holiday before he gets ungrounded and you won't get to see him for a while (because you'll be gone on holiday) so if you can just see him for a while? I think appealing to them in this way they may just decide to let you see him and that way you will both get to see each other before you go on holiday. I hope it works though and you get to see him before you go.
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Hey-
I know you want to see him- but you shouldn't meet up with him at a dangerous time just because you won't be able to see him until after you get back from your holiday. I think that maybe you can talk on the phone if he is allowed to. You can maybe contact his mom and ask if you can hang out with him one day before you leave- because you want to see him. Maybe she'll be nice and let you. I don't think it's wise to sneak out at night just to see him. You'll get in trouble- and then you won't be able to see him even longer.
Just in case you didn't see it in the edit =].
--Jack
(15/m)
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i guess you could go... i would recommend bringing a weapon though... and if you get in trouble , its not the end of the world. hope i helped :D
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ohhhh that changes things. and there is no possible way for him to come closer so you dont have to go all the way there alone? i suggest trying to ride your bike or something, rollerblade? any way that you arent just walking. park your bike on the side of the house during the day so at night you wont have to make all this noise. if you dont have a bike try rollerblades. and you know carrying something to protect yourself would help. keep a cell phone with you and try carrying pepper spray. also, carrying a keep works, my mom taught me to keep one key out of all your keys on the key ring between your fingers, and if someone tries to hurt you, gauge them somewhere on the face with it, maybe even the neck. carry a small flashlight to use if you hear something or have to go through a dark alley way. also, tell one of your friends where your going and that you know theres a pervert out there, so if something happens they know to tell the cops or your parents. just make sure your prepared and you should be fine :]
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You have to weigh your options.
1) See your boyfriend.
2) Get in trouble.
1) See your boyfriend.
2) Be scared on the way to seeing your boyfriend.
1) Getting caught by your parents or by the pervert.
2) Getting to see your boyfriend and hang out with him.
Actually, I would go. But I'd definitely tell my boyfriend to just keep talking towards my house, and that I'd walk the same route to his house, so we could meet up closer to my house than his.
Do you know WHY he can't walk closer to your house?
You could both take your cell phones, [if you have them] and when you're out of hearing distance of each others houses, call one another, and be on the phone with each other the entire time you were walking. That might calm your nerves.
..Or just run fast and take pepper spray?
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sweety i know what it feels like to not see some one im leaving to colombia for almost an entire month and i wont get to see my bf because my mom works. sometimes the safest and most wise choices are choices we dont like. but im just giving you advice you dont have to take it good luck ♥christina
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