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is my mom being paranoid?
Well, I am 5''3 and 13 years old and all my mom can ever talk about is my weight. In summer 06, she told me that i looked to heavy. I was 122 lbs, so i lost 20 pounds. then she complained that I looked to skinny. Right now I am 107 and she keeps bugging me that I look too skinny. She wants me to gain 5 lbs, but I dont want to. I like the way I look right now but my mom doesn't respect that. Whenever I wear a swimsuit, all she can comment on is, "you look too skinny". It's really annoying and I wish she would just let me stay at the weight I feel right at. I just don't want to listen to her complain anymore. What do i do?
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You are at a very healthy weight. Yes, you are thin, but you are not anorexic looking. I am pretty sure you are healthy, and as long as you are, your mom shouldn't worry about it.
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eh don't listen to her. thats her opinion. and it's your body not hers. so whenever she comments your weight just say "ok thats nice" try not to say it rude though, because that could lead to a fight haha but yeah, don't worry about what she says, it's not her body.
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if you dont want 2 gain weight, then dont try 2. 107 lbs. is actually the perfect weight for someone who is 5'3. i have gone 2 a nutritionist before so i have learned a lot about the perfect weight for certain heights. do what feels comfortable 2 you and dont let anyone push you into doing something that you dont wanna do.
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Hi, my name is em231 and I think I have an answer for you ok your mom isn't being paranoid she is
just worried about you ok. So I think you should
tell your mom this " mom, I like the way I'am
and I'am not changing ok . Try that ok I hope
It goes ok !
need any more help look for my advice column
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If you can see your ribs, then she's right.
but Its probably just because she's not used to the new you yet.
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You could make a deal with her. You will go to your doctor and ask the doctor if you are un-healthyly skinny. If you are, then you will ask the doctor for a plan to get a healthy weight, but if your fine and healthy, your mom needs to back off because if the doctor says ur fine then you are.
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