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Do you think that...?
do you think that we dont realize how much a person meant to you until they are gone?
we dont realize how much a person meant to you until they are gone like for example when your friend is moving while your avoiding them because you dont wanna get hurt but next thing you know you getting hurt anyways? i mean i think if you distance yourself from that person or spend time with them hurts the same...dont you think? sorry im not good at english so its all mixed up
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Yea i think alot of people feel that way. I know i do. Lots of people in life take people and things for granted and then when there gone it hits them that they cant live without it. You needto live everyday as it goes and tell people how you feel or be thankful for what you have cause when you no longer have it you get hurt.
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hay...
a lot of people dont realise how much a person means to them until there gone cos they take them for granted, you shouldnt take things for granted cos in a second it could be gone and then you realise how much it meant to you.
i think it would hurt more if your friend was moving and you avoided them b'cos then your giving up the opportunity to spend what time left you have with them and after they'v left you will regret not spending time with them and you will feel bad for avoiding them.
of corse it will hurt either way but you dont want to let your friend leave without saying goodbye... thats the thing you will regret the most.
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definitely. my friend moved and was wicked close and she's bffl with this other girl and i cant stand it. she only moved to another town and she doesnt even make an effort to hang out with me. before she moved I was the bffl that had the huge long quotes in her profile and i just keep thinking that shes gonna do it again when she goes to high school because she might be going to our high school and shes gonna do the same thing to that girl. i know it sucks but it is completely true. i miss her so much now but i wouldnt have imagined this crap if it didnt happen.
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You don't relize how much people mean to you intill they are gone. Intill you see them at a distance and you only have memories of them. Its very weird, because when you are TOO close to people, than you get so sick of them, and it just causes drama. Familiar faces are way different than unfamiliar. But even no matter how annoying your friends might be, be there because you are their friend and you care about them. And of course, you never know when they will be gone. Also, Try to take breaks from friends, because, this way they wont drain you down. I hope to help.
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i feel you.. i remember i had a gf and we'd always say we'd never brake up or i ghave her this golden necklace and that she'll never give it away or throw it out.. buh we broke up so its like i dunno juss try not to get so closed to the person so quickly.. DONT RUSH THINGS... makes it harder for you juss take ur time and dont say i love you the first frreaking day thats juss puppy love..
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Very often when a person has gone from our lives, we regret not saying those things we wished we had. For instance telling them how much they meant to us or how much we had appreciated them just being there. That is why it is so important to tell the people who mean the most to you just how much that is.
When you realise someone is going from your life it is very tempting to step back and distance yourself from them in order to stop yourself from being hurt. It is a normal and natural human instinct for self preservation. However much it may hurt for now, staying in contact with that person for as long as possible is the best way forward. Whether they are moving away or dying, try to stay positive and open up a conversation saying all those things you want to tell them. If that is too awkward try writing a letter that they could read or have read to them. You will feel a whole lot better in the long run. I hope that I have helped in some way and wish you all the best.
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I think you don't realise how much a person means to you until they're gone. One time me and my boyfriend were going to breakup and it wasn't until then that i realised that i could not live without him. Its okay not we worked it out lol. Someone being in your life all the time you don't think about them leaving then when they're gone, it makes you think how much they meant to you and how much you cared for them. Why do you ask? Lol
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