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dramaaaa.
okay so i went to a carnival a couple nights ago and sorta at the end i got a call from some girl i didnt know. she told me to stop talking shit and all this stuff. i have to admit, i did talk shit alongggg time ago but i dont get how this had to happen randomly the night i went to the carnival. so then when i hung up the phone i told my friend that i got a weird phone call. she called and they started bitching at eachother back and forth. finally she said "let's fight" i got really scared because i am not the biggest and strongest person ever. luckily, i have really great friends and i am thankful for that. my friend that has had experiances with fights stayed just for me and my other friend booked and ran to her boyfriends house. we stayed there for awhile. then i called my friend that had experiances with fights and asked her what happened. they got into it but not really that physical. so then she ran to my friends boyfriends house and got me and my friend and told us "you have to run now, there looking for you. there in a car. you have to hurry!" so then we went to my friends house. we stayed in her room and talked about all what happened. then my dad came to pick me up and we decided to tell him the whole story. he told me i couldnt hangout with my one friend who got into the fight. i was so depressed. i can't believe i used to talk shit so much. i really regret it. how do i stop all this drama? i need help. please read this. !!!!
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You basically have to own up to everything you said about her. And tell her that although you were talking shit, you didn't mean for it to cause drama.
However, let this be a lesson learned that when you talk shit & run your mouth, there are consequences. Although everyone does it, that doesn't mean it's right. When you have something to say about someone, say it to their face that way it can be cleared up right there & the chances of drama are slim.
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Okay when you talk too much stuff to people they kinda get upset and want to harm you.
You have to own up to what you have said you was gonna do otherwise they would think you just a punk who gotta alot of mouth and no hands to back anything up..
Its good you have friends who can have your back and help you if you cannot defend yourself..
But sometimes if you talk shit people think you can fight and they wanna fight you to see if you was really gonna say what you was gonna do..
So be careful what you say to people...
Because there are some crazy people out here who will hurt you...
PLEASE DO THIS 4 ME!!
Never talk back to anyone you know will wanna harm you.
Be respectful to people
LASTLY if you never faught or cannot fight..
do not run your mouth to people or about people
Hope I helped
Trina
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honestly, you have to just own up to this shit you said. after that, things are going to get worse then slowly get better. the people you said stuff about just need to realize it was along time ago and that you [hopefully] didn't mean it, it was just kinda in the moment. as for your dad not letting you talk to your friend, you should tell him how much she helped you that night and tell him that you're trying to figure all this out.
hope things die down, good luck<3
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