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My Friend Is Creeping Me Out!
Ok, a couple of days ago I'm IMing my friend and I tell her to hang on I had to use the restroom. Well, when I come back and start talking to her again, she asks what I was doing. I said, "just going to the bathroom." She said, "yea, i know but what were you doing?" I got mad because I knew what she meant by that. I got really mad when she asked, "Did you start your period?" She's always asking me, what're you doing this weekend? What did you do last night? Who do you like? And WAY too many personal questions not even my parents know. I told her to stop asking, but she said, "No, I have every right to know what's happening to you." I need advice on what do do. She won't leave me alone about personal stuff! And why would I tell her if she's going to tell everybody else. She always promises not to tell and goes ahead and says it anyway. HELP!
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hey izzy! its me rach! ok well she should back off and you have to tell her that! she does not have the right to know everything thats going on. tell her to back off and if you want to tell her somthing, just be cautious. it sounds to me that you cant trust her. and tell her to back off and give you privacy. and if she says no again, dont be her friend. i dont want a freind who does that.
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You don't have to answer.
And she does not have the right to know. There are no laws saying you must tell her all about your personal life and such.
Tell her it's nice that she cares so much, 'cause she obviously cares about your life a lot...
But you need your space. She shouldn't be so pushy or nosy. No one wants that.
And then going and telling people...that's not a good friend.
I'm sure there are good things about her, but maybe you should keep your distance.
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Flat out tell her to give you your space, or stay away from you. You like your privacy, and that's completely understandable. If you want to tell her something, you will.
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ive had friends like that. tell her that you need space and that she cant keep asking you all these personal quesions. and if she doesnt stop then forget her because thats just being to clingy.
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she doesn't sound like a very good friend to me..
she seems kinda pushy and needy. Let her know that you don't like when she asks you questions like that.. if she keeps doing it, stop being friends.
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