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13 and i have a DD cup!!
most girls probably would love to have a DD cup but i hate it! i hang out with a lot of guys and they never shut up about them. they grab them unexpectidly, everything! even the girls always talk about them.i try to go along with it but i cant anymore! my mom thinks im depressed because of it. how do i get them to stop?
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it's your own fault for having nice boobs
you can...wear baggy clothing?
or just not wear a bra...that might make it worse tho
idk whatevs
but hey, being depressed isnt bad!
you get to take ritalin!
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Guys will be guys, but if they don't quite, just be aggressive, and tell them to stop or they'll have a bump on their head the size of your breasts. It's all about making jokes about yourself, but not something too harsh (obviously!). As for the girls, they're just jealous. If they make rude comments, say "I'd rather have a DD than a Negative A." Even if it's not true, it'll shut 'em up pretty quick.
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i had the exact same problem. when they grab you inappropriately, do NOT be afraid to yell at them, i did that all the time, i ended up screaming at one "STOP IT NOW. you aren't cute and you aren't funny." and he stopped. and the girls, i deal with it, but if they're putting you down for it, say something.
i hope this helped, but if not, and you want to talk about it more, don't be afraid to contact me. i'm 15 and in a DD, too. don't hesitate at all
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#1. If they're really good guy friends they will have respect for you and not grab your boobs (unless a special someone has permission.) You're not a sex object for them to touch whenever they want especially if YOU dont want that. 13 is a hard age because girls and guys will still be immature with all those ragin hormones but when you get older all the boob talk will finally wear out, especially when those girls develop boobs of there own and start to understand to a certain degree what you have to go through. You cant let what girls say about your boobs get to you beUcause they are problly jealous that they are not as stacked and they don't realize the negative things that you have to deal with like sore back, wrong attention from creepers, or even finding shirts and bras that will contain them. THose girls when they're older will probally end up pay a couple g's just to get what you have. But that's not the point, to get them to hopefully come to their senses, ask them why their lives are so boring that they have nothing else to do other than oggle and talk about your breasts? They most likely will be at a loss of words after that. Unfortunately, its a hard age but, just be confident in yourself and if the problem persists as you do get older, you can certainly have a boob reduction to whatever size you see desirable. Good luck:)
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Well what the guys are doing is a little thing called sexual harassment, something you can get them into a lot of trouble for if you so choose, but you should probably start by telling them to stop, and if that doesn't work, try a good slap to the face. The girst are probably just talking about them because they are jelous.
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wear a sports bra it makes them smaller a bit. tell people to fuck off if they bug you about them. so what you cant help it. for your guy friends their guys their crazy. i have alot of guy friends to. they too talk about girls breasts. when your around just tell them to stop if they touch them like that push them there guys theyll get over it. say do you mind or wtf stop or anything. im just as strong as the guys. yea guys are stupid they want some loving. tell them to back of. or just push them off or away. my guy friends dont do it anymore exept one but ya gotta love them so make them fall to the ground dont make them cry.
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i go through this same problem. i'm a little bit older than you, but i know exactly how you feel. people don't realize that it's not always a good thing (but it's not a bad thing, either.). These guys should NOT be doing that to you. when they do, don't laugh along or anything like that, or else they'll think that it's okay for them to do these kinds of things to you, which it's not. either give them a face and say "uh yeah..you're really funny.." or something to make them feel stupid, or just flat out tell them to stop. and for the girls, just privately tell them that you don't like it when they talk about them.
i know this doesn't seem like much, but it's helped me. i hope i helped!!
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