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Kissing SUCKS!
Well,.. kissing sucks.
Really, why wasn't I warned? I have waited my whole life for that moment, I have been nervous and excited and spent so many classes ignoring the teacher and dreaming about it - and it sucks. Not because he was a bad kisser, just cause.. well its nothing special. It's SO OVERRATED! Like, really, am I the only one who feels this way? In movies it looks amazing - time stands still, sparks fly, it's impossible to breathe - but noooo. Not at all.
Why'd I waste so long waiting for that kiss? I turned down lots of great guys cause I wanted my first kiss to be REALLY SPECIAL. But itwasn't. I'm so dissapointed.
Does it get better? Or is it really not that great and people just make it sound great cause they're in love?
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ok well. your first time probably wasnt that good because you were a beginner and the guy might have been to. you might have been nervous and not relaxed enough to really enjoy it. basically its way better if you are really in love with the person because you just want to be close to them. maybe you just need to find a special person to do it with.
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Most people have a horrible first kiss. You don't know what to expect or exactly what to do. When you love and care about someone, it's MUCH better. Just think of it this way. You got the awkward first kiss out of the way, so it can only get better from there.
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Sadly, most first kisses suck. Mine did, the guy tried to like, eat my face off, and it was in the weight room.
I mean come on. =P
No, but seriously it took me three "actual"/long term boyfriends to find one that kissed well enough to make my knees go weak and my heart skip a beat.
You'll find that guy, and when you do, you won't think kissing is so overrated.
Or maybe you will, and kissing just won't be your favorite aspect of relationships. It happens...but I personally think you just haven't found a good kisser yet.
PS: Sax players and trumpet players are good kissers, I've found...;)(and one singer that just happens to know what he's doing)
Good luck!
-Siren =)
[Edit]: Good to know I was missed! Better to know I actually helped you. ^_^ Yeah, things are going all right. My life got a bit more complicated since I disappeared, but if you'd like to chat, feel free to IM me - my screen name's SirenCytherea on AIM. =)
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Well...if you're saying the guy isn't a good kisser, then I'm sure he isn't. Even though you said he wasn't bad.
My guess is...you just have to wait and find the one special guy.
Some guys, will roam their hands over you. I like being touched. But it's completely up to you.
It took me 15 years just to make out. I thought about it so much, I just couldn't do it.
And one day, I did it. I hated the guy, I still hate the guy, but at least I can say I know how.
Just dont think about it next time.
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Trust me, it definitley gets better! Actually most people's first kisses are usually not very good. Like with mine, the actuall kiss itself was good, however, the guy turned out to be a totall whore, druggie, alcoholic, and general asshole and was totally using me just to try to have sex with me. So trust me, you have nothing to worry about, it's going to get much much better! :^)
And as for the movie thing, movies always make every single thing in life seem like it should be absoltuley perfect. But really, the little imperfections in life is what makes life so much fun.
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Well, my first kiss wasn't all fireworks and shooting stars. I was too busy worrying that I sucked at what we were doing. I was really happy that I'd finally had my first kiss, sure, but afterward I barely remembered anything about the actual kissing. I was too preoccupied with my thoughts.
I'm still dating the guy who I had my first kiss with and it DEFINITELY got fun. You just have to let yourself go and have fun with it. Most people don't have the perfect first kiss. It takes time and practice to perfect it.
I waited 17 years for my first kiss, and even though it wasn't a movie kiss, I'm glad it happened. Now you just go with the flow...there are very few people who end up not liking to kiss.
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