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i don't know what to tell him
I hooked up with this kid(joe) who likes me last friday. On saturday, I hooked up with this other kid, (tom). Well now, Joe's friend keeps telling me Joe is going to ask me out and he really likes me. I don't like him though and I don't want to go out with him, especcially since summer is soon. Should I tell Joe I don't want to go out with him cause it's almost summer or because I hooked up with someone else and I don't want to hurt him cause of it? (that is really the truth)
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it sounds like you just wanna be free and single in the summer. and thats understandable. just tell him hes a great guy, but you just dont want a boyfriend right now.
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Ok well you definitely need to talk to him soon. Just wait and let him ask you out incase you make a fool of yourself since its only this guys friend who is saying he's going to ask you out.
Then when and if he asks you just tell him that you are really sorry and you like him but your just not ready to be in a relationship. Your young and you want to have fun.
Maybe perhaps tell him that he's more then welcome to go to the movies or something with you but only as friends, apologise to him and say sorry for any impressions you've given him.
Just be super nice to him because you might in the future want to be with him.
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well i think you should just wait till he asks and tell him that you want to be free of commitments for the summer, im sure his feelings will blow over by the end of summer. hope it helps
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tell him both but say it as one. for example say that you dont want to go out with him because you want to stay friends and your kind of seeing someone write now anyway. say it nice and sweet if your worried about hurting him
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