theres these two boys. Both of them are my good friends. One is always on my mind, and i really like him. But when the other one looks at me and talks to me, he makes me feel happy. When he smiles at me, i get, allrite this will sound lame, he gives me butterflies in my stomach. But i dont think of him as much as i think of the other one. I used to have a crush on the one that makes me feel happy, and i never knew why. Now i know, but i dont want to like him again, cause i cant see myself with him, but i can see myself with the other one. Im so confused about them.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? SxExAxNx answered Monday June 4 2007, 10:35 pm: this one is hard to answer because of so many possible outcomes...but ill try my best. myabe you could try to hook up with the one that you can see yourself with. many things can happen
1.he takes your mind off liking the other guy and u and the other guy can just be good friends.
2.you still are attracted to the other guy even tho you have a BF and problems come up.
3.you put too much time into yur BF and the other guy just kind of fades out of you
4.hook up with none of them and try to just be friends
5.let the other guy kno that he is one of your closest friends so he doesnt get any hard feelings about it.
CheerCandi answered Monday June 4 2007, 10:33 pm: well you still have feeliing with the boy that makes you happy. but maybe you think that you can do better so you wont let yourself completely like him again. youyr falling for the other boy but you need to go for him and get noticed before you end up getting hurt. be friends with the boy that makes you happy. be very good friends. and just go for the other. dont let the boy that makes you happy stand in the way of the boy you really want to be with [ CheerCandi's advice column | Ask CheerCandi A Question ]
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