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yeah i kinda asked that question yesterday even though it wasn't a question.. i just wanna say that i still back up most of the things i said but i do understand that i should have said it in a calmer and not so negative matter. i was wrong & i apologize to those who i hurt (haha) even though you guys all think im a whiny teenager. i'm really nothing like that i was just trying to speak my mind. i really do LOVE advicenators and i'm kinda addicted and i don't wanna leave although many people want me to. some people on this site judge people unfairly, but the majority on this site are nice people and infact give good advice.
& to younggrandma you've always been an inspiration to me and what i said had NOTHING to do with you. in another question i asked, i was happy you told me how stupid and babyish i was acting. it made me change so younggrandma you have nothing to do with the last temper tantrum i had. i hope we can be friends. :]
once again i love MOST of the people on this site. and i hope i dont have too many haters after this =/
well sorry everyone because i really do respect adults and i dont think they are better then me. i just get angry with them sometimes. but its all good.
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Hi there,
I guess the thing to learn from this, which I am not sure you have yet, is that by saying what you did, and continuing to "...back up most of the things i said..." you have pre-judged adults, and painted them with a stereotypical brush.
I am glad to see you at least realize YG isn't your mortal enemy. That shows that there is hope for you. ;-)
As for the whole fashion thing... it isn't that you would want to look good, it is those people who follow the current trends because they believe they will look good if they wear what their friends wear, and/or what the TV and magazines TELL THEM looks good.
If you want a real answer to this, ask yourself these questions:
"If nobody I knew had ever even heard of abercrombie, and they sold it at wal-mart... would I still wear it?"
... and:
"If it was on the front cover of every teen magazine that what I wear is the stupidest thing ever made, and that only a moron would wear it... would I still wear it?"
... If you answer yes to either of those you are probably lying. :-)
If you answer no to either of those, then you haven't started to think for yourself yet.
Simple matter of logic. Please don't judge those of us who have already been where you are and are old enough to know better.
The only way to learn is to listen.
I hope you were able to follow the two magic questions, and I hope you were honest in your answers.
Oh, and believe me, if anyone wanted you off this site, I would know about it. My inbox lights up nice and bright when it is time to remove someone.
If you go back to acting the way you were, I wouldn't be surprised if I had requests to remove you, but as it sits now, people have been very forgiving.
Take care.
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I hope I didn't hurt your feelings very much but I wanted to give you a wake-up call! Had I not been
stern with you, you may not have learned a thing. :)
I'm so glad you like the site and if we teach you something along the way, we are doing our job.
I think its great that you wrote, shows maturity.
Of course we can be friends. I have a lot of respect for those who do the right thing.
Now, next time you feel you are being picked on
you file an abuse report and we will handle it for
you. There are those who will judge you unfairly
while you are here. You can let most of it slide,
but there may be some useful information to be learned too. :)
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Thank you for apologizing. I'm just glad that you're not mad anymore, that's not healthy. Hope you're doing okay. :)
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Hey, we all make mistakes, right? We all have our moments where we need to let it out, and we are allowed to. The most important thing that I am glad you did, was apologize. It in a way ties the ends of this, and just tells everyone to take it easy, its over, and its going to be ok. Dont leave, everyone is welcome here on Advicenators, and I hope I am speaking on behalf of this site when I say We all make mistakes, and that yours is forgiven.
If anyone is giving you a hard time on here, file an abuse report!
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