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theres this girl and i dont like her like a girl friend or anything but every time were together all we do is sexual things... so you think its bad to do this we have never screwed and wont but we just play around do you think i should stop or do you even think it matters?
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Its really important you make sure the girl feels the same way because she might think you are leading her on and she might actually like you and maybe expect you to start a relationship or something and you could really hurt her feeling s! Girls get attached easily beware!
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I don't think it is 'bad' if you both know where you stand. You should make sure that you both know each other's boundaries and limits.
Eventually, you run the risk of someone getting attached on an emotional level instead of just a physical one, whether it is her or you. When that happens, it is going to be very difficult for you to continue the 'benefits' because one of you will want more than just that.
But, then again, it is completely possible that this won't even happen. But, once again, you need to make sure that both of you know what you want from the other and that you both know what the other DOESN'T want.
Hope it works out.
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Eventually, someone will get attached & get their feelings hurt. I can guarantee you, there's almost never a good ending to a friends with benefits situation. In my opinion, I don't think it's right to do those things with someone you don't like or have any intentions of having a relationship with. It's trashy, it's disrespectful to both her & yourself & it's just NEVER a good idea. I don't mean to preach but YES, it does matter & YES, I do think you need to reconsider what you are doing.
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As long as she knows you aren't in a relationship together nor will be you are fine. It would be best if you did start a relationship as obviously there is a sexual attraction or you wouldn't be doing this every time you hang out.
Make sure she knows it's just a friends and beefits deal and nothing else so she never gets hurt. Fooling around is fine as long as you both establish how far this will go and where it cannot get to.
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its fine just as long as your not leading her on that you dolike her more than a friend.
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