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my bf wants to eat me out & he told me that he was going to but i told him that i thinks its just kind of sick. Am i wrong? Dosnt it smell bad, especially if their down there? I just dont get why they would want to.
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It's your opinion. There are some guys willing to do it & others aren't. When you love someone, you'll make sacrafices to make that person happy & feel good. Guys (as well as girls) love being able to have the power of pleasuring their partner. I wouldn't say that you are wrong for thinking it could be disgusting. But usually younger kids don't grasp the concept of why these kinds of acts are shared. But no matter how old you are, you are still entitled to choose whether or not something is on your list of things to do in the bedroom. Only do what you are comfortable with.
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ok, as long as its clean it wont smell. Men tend to like the smell of a wet pussy. Mine can tell when I am wet just by the smell, and he enjoys it, it turns him on. So anyways... its not sick unless you are unconfortable with it.
As for why they would want to do it, they want to please. He wants to please you and hear you moan about how good it feels. Maybe he then hopes it will go on to you doing stuff to him and it will open up so many doors that are just amazing.
So relax, make sure its clean, and let him go at it. I promise you if he knows what he is doing it will feel soooooo amazing.
Enjoy! :D
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well, i've never really understood why a guy would want to do that, either. I suppose their thinking is "well, it feels good when she does it to me, so I want to give her the same pleasure." And if the girl enjoys it, that's great. I've had it done to me, but I couldn't enjoy it because I kept thinking "ewwww, isn't it gross for him?" But if the woman doesn't mind it and actually enjoys it, then it can make you both feel good. :]
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If you don't want him to, then stick with your decision. I personally have never had it done to me & don't want it to happen to me. I mean, it's gross. You pee from it, and have your period and it's disgusting.
You're not wrong, nor are you right. It's your opinion & opinions are never just one thing. Stick to your morals & your decisions. If your boyfriend cannot accept your decisions, then he needs help.
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I can definatly see it being really nasty but apperently people really like it. I do know guys that refuse to do it because they think it's gross but i know others that enjoy it almost as much as the girls i know that loooveee it. a lot of people will do it to get a blowjob in return or to give back. <3
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Well, I'm a married woman and *I* don't get the attraction. I've had it done before and just the thought of the fluids and all the bacteria both in his mouth and in my vagina really gross me out! Don't get me wrong - I kiss and we have sex, but down germs are supposed to stay down and up germs up, if you ask me. That's just me. Yes, there can be a funky smell, but it turns some guys on. And if you clean often and well enough, there's not much smell at all. A lot of women love oral. I just don't like it. I don't think it's wrong - it's just my opinion. If he really wants to do it, I suggest that you could give it at least a try, maybe right after you've showered together or something. If you don't like it, though, you don't have to do it.
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