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Im loosing my friends for him.
I am 13/f, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months. My friends absolutly hate my boyfriend. I can see why though. He is always calling my friends names!! It gets on there nerves and even my nerves quite often! Its nothing bad like, fat, ugly, ect. but its like your stupid, your a loser, and, like blonde jokes. So far all of my friends told me i should break up with him. Isn't that crazy?!? Even some of them say that if i dont break up with him, then we wont be friends anymore. So they are asking me; me, or your boyfriend? I dont know. i really love my boyfriend, and love my friends. i sure am in a mess.
Thanks for all the comments/advice, it is well appreciated.
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NEVER NEVER NEVER choose between your boyfriend or your friends. it has a very bad outcome. talk to your boyfriend. ask him to not joke around your friends as much. or try hanging out with him without your friends. but please, whatever you do, dont choose between them
i hope this helps.
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ok i think you should have a talk with your boyfreind about respecting your freinds here.If he doesnt listen to you and respect that then hes not willing to sacrifice small things for you then dump him hes not worth it cuz you asked him for a small favor like that and end he didnt listen.as for your freinds tell them that you talked to your boyfreind and hes gonna stop and if he dont your gonna break up with him becuase he doesnt respect you or your wishes.
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This happens alot. You can't guarantee your friends will get on with your other half - vice versa.
Friends are more important. but when they get boyfriends, no doubt the same will happen to them as it is to you.. Or they will start to spend less time with you and more with their bf's. That's life.
I think you need to speak to them all. Tell them how you're feeling. Firstly, you need to explain to your boyfriend it's not fair to diss your friends. He should apologize to them, too.
Next, tell your friends you aren't prepared to choose between everybody. It's not fair on you.
It's not like you all have to hang out together is it?
You should see your boyfriend on seperate days to your friends. Make sure to have girly days/nights so they know you aren't ditching them.
They could also be jealous you have a bf and they don't?
I'm sure you will be able to get to the root of this somehow.
Just speak to them and see what you say.
Either way, your friends are probably looking out for you.
If you'd like further advice, don't hesitate to ask.
Good luck
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Tell your boyfriend that its not right for him to say those things. You really love him but you love your friends too. Theres no reason your friends and boyfriend cant get along. Make sure your boyfriend Apologizes or acts nicer to them. Your friends are going to be more stubborn then your boyfriend. Trust me.
I had to deal with this A few months ago. My friends boyfriend stood up on a chair and Told the whole homerom who I like I couldnt believe it.I hated him but he Apologized and picked me on ihs teams and I knew he didnt like me but he was trying to apologize and make up for it. Just trust me on this.Just make sure You have a balancing act between your friends and Boyfriend too.
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